I feel defeated by my fiancé. I walk out of the bedroom naked while our son is taking his long nap…

@beebaby, that he just doesn't want it. That when he turned 30 2 years ago he just lost his drive and that he feels like someday he'll get it back....there's a different excuse every day. He tells me I just need to be naked instead of trying to come on to him randomly. And I'll get naked and then there's another excuse as to why it's not happening

@beebaby, he doesn't have time for anyone else so I know that's not the issue he's just not willing

@beebaby, oooo yeah he's definitely not willing to see a doctor mainly because he doesn't have insurance right now

@beebaby, no idea. I'm stuck. What are you suppose to do in a relationship that's so perfect but the only thing is he won't fuck you?! Is there natural ways for males to boost libidos?!

Is it just not happening as often as you want to or it's literally never happening? Also is he watching porn or doing sexual stuff when he's by himself???

Does he watch porn?

@bmndz95, nope he's never alone to have time

@jcbaby, he's never alone to jerk off or watch porn. We have sex maybe once a week when I either have to bug the absolute shit out of him for it or I get so depressed it's the only way to pull me out of my funk and he starts feeling bad.

@beebaby, he's 5'11 and weighs 130 he's a super stick

And you are very pretty 🙄🙄 i kinda went thru that funk when i was tryna conceive... he just seemed disinterested so i just stopped asking and bought a dildo ....

@bmndz95, Ive always been a very sexual person and Ive been taking care of it myself since I was very young, it just doesn't do it for me anymore

🙁.

@bmndz95, @beebaby, am I really going to have to end a family because he wants nothing to do with me sexually. It sounds stupid. But I know if it were the other way around most guys would definitely leave or cheat

How long has this been going on?

@bmndz95, a year and a half

Oh lawd yeah no . Sex is a basis . & leaving is better than cheating

@sabby, he may not have health insurance for years to even ask a doctor

@beebaby, exactly. That's not fair

Just keep in mind that every persons sex drive isn't always on the same level or page, and what he's experiencing could possibly be medical related or something he's eating, which he might not be aware of. Maybe take it one step at a time and try different things. Just my own opinion, but I don't think sex should be the reason for any relationship to end. Believe me, I was married once to an addict who would get ticked off at me if I didn't give it to him 1-3x's a day, every day. I lived miserably for 7 years like that because he wasn't open to seeking help and he made it out to be that I was the one with the issue all the time. Try this website and see if it might help, but there are many online home remedies. https://draxe.com/how-to-increase-libido/

That definitely sounds like there is red flags there. I'd look into it deeper.

@marthaelisa17, he literally has no time to cheat on me. The only thing else that could be going on is he's talking to someone else