What can I do to not have my daughter cry everytime I put her down to either change her(she only…

Let her cry. Doesnt hurt. Thw more you let her cry it out (no longer than 5 minutes cause then something is wrong) she will realize okay crying still isn't making mommy pick me up so maybe I should stop. My son wanted to be held 247. I had to let him cry it out eventually cause it was hard to do anything and he slowly started to stop crying when laying down or just being put down. If thats not what you wanna do get a wrap or baby carrier.

Are you constantly holding baby?

Do you have a swing?

Try using a swing , an talking to her when you place her down to let her know she's okay. If your doing chores place her in a bouncy seat or something next you so she can see you. She loves her mama an wants to be with you all the time. Also a baby wrap is amazing! My daughter was that way an still is but slowly growing out of it. It's perfect fine to let them cry it out for a little bit. But definetly get her if she's crying to hard an coughing or gagging or holding her breath. My daughter cried hard like that when I ignore her lol @celiesmommy01,

@luceromommy Yeah I do constantly hold her but she cries when I put her down to change her diaper as well:/

@aliakr I have this swing/rocker for her and she loves it its just when she needs a diaper change she starts crying when I put her down and im not the only one she has done this to she does it to my boyfriend and his family as well.

So she cries when you go to change her diaper?@celiesmommy01,

@aliakr Yeah shell be fine when you pick her up but the minute you put her down to either change her or go do something else she just starts crying. She only sometimes cries when you put her down to change her diaper.

Yeah sounds like my daughter! She gets mad cause I'll be holding her then it's like teasing her since we put her back down. I started just letting her cry or I'll stick her in her crib with her bobby an turn on Elmo. She loves Elmo but I don't dare go back in that room cause as soon as she sees me she's gonna cry . Have you tried turning a show on for her ? Or catch her attention@celiesmommy01,

@aliakr She won't even take her pacifier unless we are in the car or she absolutely has to have it. And I know what you mean haha I made the mistake of going back in the room when she was in her crib and the minute she saw me she started trying to talk and making a fussy noise. And yeah I have tried putting on a show for her when I have been out in the living room but she gets bored of it to quickly and wants to be held again

@aliakr I do talk to her when I change her diaper and it seems to help sometimes

Yeah she's gonna have to just grow out of it! Only for the past 2 weeks my daughter has been a little better. She will never take a pacifier now. Nothing but being held. I know how frustrating it is !' They are so smart an know how to get their ways lol@celiesmommy01, another reason why I just wear her around the house so she stops crying

@aliakr I have tried the cry it out method but it breaks my heart everytime she cries when i put her down because all she wants is me but that's how NOTHING gets done. im definitely going to look into buying a baby carrier tho

My daughter does that as well, she will cry when I put her in her chair and when I place her on her back... I always reassure her about everything that I will be doing before and after. Distraction is key... I bought a musical teddy bear and she loves this bear it plays a very soothing melody so when I am about to change her I place her on her back and give her the bear and then I change her while it's playing the tune. Of course I have other ways of distracting her as well just in case she wants to be very difficult and won't take her teddy bear I put her the "Little Baby Bum" video and change her while she is watching it. Even just singing and making funny noises to make her laugh can also help... you just haven't found the right technique for diaper changing it takes time trust me in the beginning she would just cry it out and I just had to continue to reassure her. Just have some toys that she really loves, sing a song to her or play nursery songs. Infants love toys that light up and make plenty of sounds that catches their attention.

It's a bond... because she wants to always be with you in your arms it's closer to hear your heartbeat

@tashyyyy I haven't tried a musical bear or anything musical yet her bouncer has a musical thing on it. I have tried talking to her that sometimes works I have tried giving her her pacifier she hates her pacifier and i have made weird and funny noises and faces and she smiles at that but sometimes she can be so difficult and so stubborn she reminds me of myself when I was a baby lol

@celiesmommy01, that's good just keep doing that but try playing the little baby bum videos it's on Netflix. You be alright trust me ... my bf and myself are very stubborn so you can imagine how my daughter would be when she is upset

@tashyyyy Lol same with my boyfriend we are both very stubborn. But I will try the baby bum videos

Yeah the. Boba is amazing! All of those wraps are awesome an a life savior it really is heartbreaking when they cry :(@celiesmommy01,

@aliakr Im going to get one:)

I dont mind holding her sometimes but i cant hold her very long because of me getting the epidural im having really bad back pain @aliakr

I give my son something to distract him. Especially during diaper changes because he cannot stand sitting still for 2 seconds lol. I'll usually let him hold the wipe container or the clean dialer until I need it.

How does she sleep?

@luceromommy She sleeps good especially when she takes baths

But in your arms?

@luceromommy No not anymore