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drmurphy13
Danielle·Мама троих детей

VENT: okay I understand my husband has add/adhd but when he's out of medicine he's only helpful when he wakes up... but yet if I try to wake him up morning or night and ask him to do a small favor he says okay and goes back to sleep or he just gives me that look like "What?!" And goes back to sleep.

But here we are where he said he'd take our second down to the nursery after I fed him so I could sleep and get the most sleep possible before going home tomorrow afternoon/evening. He even told me to wake him up and he still just said okay and fell back asleep... I know I'm hormonal still but I really don't feel like doing this alone and he promised I wouldn't but I see nothing happening so to me it looks more like a broken promise.... and I really hate it!!! But at least I have two beautiful and sweet boys that bring me to strive for better even if dad does sometimes upset me no matter how much I love him

07.05.2017
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drmurphy13
Danielle·Мама троих детей

@nancysims1218, @taviap, @mommysbabies, thanks ladies for the responses. And he does help a lot when he has his medicine. And he had it when we got here but he lost it somewhere between moving rooms or his dad stole it while he was gone getting food and I was asleep during labor(at least that's what I think what happened.) It's just frustrating when he doesn't have his medication cause he's more of a teenager that sleeps and eats compared to what I'm used to when he's on it. And I'll be honest he's better then he was when I 1st met him, he used to never get up if he didn't have it. AND there's been times I've been super proud of him but most of the time it just feels like broken promises since I know he's sometimes capable of doing great things without it.... if that makes any sense...

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Ashley ·Мама троих детей

My husband put the bassinet next to his head he should probably tell his dr about that because honestly I have that too other than it makes doing tasks hard and I'm scatter brained I can still get up and get my son when he needs me there may be something else going on there and I'm not on meds because they put me into a depression no matter how low the dose is

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My husband is the same way but not just our son with anything. Like once he's sleep he's sleep. I'm pretty sure he's only gotten up maybe 3 times in all of the two years our son has been born. And even now there's times our son will get out his bed at night and come get in ours and I'll even wake him up so he can make room for him and when he officially wakes up to go to work he'll have the most confused look on his face as to how our son is sleeping between us and he didn't even know. He might just be a really heavy sleeper which sucks but I don't think anything can be done about it. I hate it so much though it really sucks knowing you're the only one that will/have to get up with the kids at night...it's draining!!!

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nancy sims·Мама двоих (6 лет, 8 лет)

I literally have a video of my boyfriend sleeping at the hospital while our son screamed his head off and now my son is a month and I'm still pretty much doing it on my own, granted he goes to work but taking care of a baby is hard work too I couldn't imagine having two! Good luck and I hope he helps out because you're going to be drained

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