@bayou_donna
He sits on his butt most of the time playing games on that damn phone of his. Tries to say he's not on it all the time. Yet honey, I pay the bill, last month he used 30 gigs of data!! Good thing I pay for unlimited.

He refuses to clean unless I start it.
He will sweep only if I completely clean up the floor, then I have to mop.
Or he will only load the dishes. I have to unload, wipe down the counters and sweep/ mop the kitchen.
Laundry... don't even ask. He will take it to dry it at the mat cause we have no dryer but refuses to wash fold hang up or put away.

Doesn't help with bed time unless the kids cry for him even then he is reluctant and will stall constantly until I yell at him, then I'm the bad guy for nagging....

I got so fed up, I just got off the phone with his momma. I don't like doing that but his ass needs a wake up call.

He will get home in the morning from work to me mine and our son's stuff being gone, and his other kids being with their mom.

Girl.. Woman! You gots to be kidding me! What kinda man is this? Anything you can do, he should be able too as well. Whew I thought I had it bad. But damn.

I told him to f $@# off and that I'm not fixing it now. He can do it himself. Not that he knows how. He will end up taking it to a shop.

I'm just done with him at this point this week. All week he's been a whiny brat about things I haven't gotten done failing to notice what I did get done.

Like
Replaced his water pump
Cleaned the entire house from top to bottom
Finished little man's nursery
Changed the oil in both our cars
Replaced the ceiling fan that broke
Packed all our crap for Disney
Unpacked all our crap from Disney then got 3 hours of sleep before a 12 hour shift!!

Then he can fix it himself or be patient with you.