I went to the doctor yesterday and found out I'm pregnant again. I just had my first baby 7 months ago and I feel like I'm betraying her. I don't feel excited or as attached to this pregnancy like I did with my first. How could I possibly love someone as much as I love her. I know a mothers love is powerful and moms tell me I will get there especially when I hold this new baby. It still doesn't take away from the fact that I'm scared and nervous about what Mom will have to say about having another during our struggles but we Will make it work.
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@jasminem, thank you so much for sharing. I'm so nervous to have two under two
i have 3. A girl 4 years old and i had my 2nd son 6-17-16 and my 3rd son 4-28-17. my 2nd is not even a year old and i have a newborn already. So dont feel bad everything happens for a reason. I felt the same way with my last pregnancy no attachment oe connection i didn feel happy i went into depression. But when he was born i fell in love for a third time. Itll be hard but you all will get through. Sorry so long lol
I felt the same at first with this pregnancy... As I've gone through and heard the heartbeat then found out I'm having another girl and starting feeling her move my excitement and love had grown and I've found the room in my heart... It gets easier I promise
ur welcome it gets better. That i how i am i have 2 under 1. I still feel like i dont give my other 2 attention but i do the best i can. and im by myself most the time my husband goes out of town for a month and only comes back home for a week and back again for another month.