Doris
deemamibear
Doris ·Мама троих детей

Ladies question not baby related. Am I wrong for getting upset that my MIL asked my husband to take her out for Mother's Day instead of me? I haven't been on a date with my husband alone for about a year and a half now, cause nobody stays with our girls not even her unless we going to work and we pay her. 🙄I'm so upset right now. 😡🔥

05.05.2017
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ibirthgreatness
⚓️Kaamilah⚓️·Мама двоих (7 лет, 21 год)

Oh damn , now that's pretty rude of her to say that . I totally understand your frustration on this matter . It's both of your days and your married now . So I'm sure he is torn. Sadly he may have to split his time or even do her on another day. I hated when my MIL would put my husband in uncomfortable situations like that. Sorry your going through that hun @deemamibear,

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deemamibear
Doris ·Мама троих детей

@krenee1120, i don't mind doing joint Mother's Day that's what I normally tell him to do, I tell him to take his mother with us on special days but she told him to take her out without me which is what got me upset because I always include her on days that I should be going out alone with him.

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ibirthgreatness
⚓️Kaamilah⚓️·Мама двоих (7 лет, 21 год)

I do a joint Mother's Day with both our mothers because it's their day as well. I get it , but I guess it all depends on what your comfortable with.

Maybe he can take her to breakfast and you out to dinner if he can manage all that .

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deemamibear
Doris ·Мама троих детей

@heatherlynn1220, I'm glad he understood me. 😓 it must be the pregnancy hormones that still have me so angry.

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missheatherbaby
Heather ·Мама четверых детей

@deemamibear, your right. It's good he understands though.

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deemamibear
Doris ·Мама троих детей

@heatherlynn1220, yes he knows I'm upset I let him know she's not right for that, he told me not to be upset that I will be with him for Mother's Day. My problem is why would she think it's ok to take Mother's Day away from me cause she's his mother, why doesn't she pick another day for her son to take her out.

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momofboth
c. g·Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)

Wife comes first so that's wrong of him

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missheatherbaby
Heather ·Мама четверых детей

@deemamibear, you have every right to be upset! Did he agree to take her?Does he know your upset?

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sims.krista
Krista·Мама двоих (8 лет, 12 лет)

id be upset if he didn't also invite me to go too .

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