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Samone
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Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I really hate cps. I have never been in any trouble. I've never harmed a child. Yet have my kids taken because my house…

I really hate cps. I have never been in any trouble. I've never harmed a child. Yet have my kids taken because my house is not clean enough for them. ( Barely a mess) honestly I don't see how they​ expect an absolutely spotless house when I have two toddlers. I'm getting so depressed and I feel like a shitty mom. I'm raising to kids by myself while my husband is away for the military. How do y'all keep a spotless house with toddlers?

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charmed040309

Amanda BatesМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I would contact a lawyer if you're able to

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charmed040309

Amanda BatesМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

@thestarsinorlove, they won't. We had them for a year thanks to my dad and his wife

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@shellbell0391 I had a friend staying with me with her kids and I was baby sitting my nieces. I asked her to watch the kids while I went to the bathroom and when I came back she told me my nieces had poor powder hair bleach in her sisters eyes. After that they started a CPS case on me and told me I needed to child proof my house which I did. Now they won't leave me alone.

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

I really wish I had my mom over at the time. There are so many people who genuinely don't take care of they're kids.

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mrsm82218

MichelleМама сына-младенца

You gotta try and get someone to help ya I'm sure there's resources you can use

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mrsm82218

MichelleМама сына-младенца

Why do you even have cps coming to your house?

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charmed040309

Amanda BatesМама двоих (4 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Cps can very strict, but I would find out what the reasoning was that they took your kids

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@shellbell0391 they were really not picking. Theyve come two times before and house was spotless because my kids were still sleep. She asked me to open the bathroom door so she could take a picture and two minutes after opening the door I'm still standing next to the door and she says to me "I mean honestly this is a hazard to your child. You have bleach and cleaning supplies in the bathroom and you left the door open. They also know that I have child locks on my doors. When I took my son out of his high chair she took a picture of the mess he made. Every time they saw something brown the assumed it was feces. I honestly have no idea what to do.

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mrsm82218

MichelleМама сына-младенца

I think you should contact someone who can help you because that doesn't seem right?

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

@pnkbuttafly234

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mrsm82218

MichelleМама сына-младенца

What the heck! God I hope they never come to my house and I don't even have toddlers! How does that happen? That is ridiculous.

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

There bed room they're play pens were in the living room

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Like I said I was cleaning the living room when they came

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

When they came I had just finished making breakfast and I'd abandoned my own meal to clean up the living the dishes had not been done yet

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breloya

BreaМама дочки (1 год), беременна (9 нед.)

Wow, wtf. My house is NEVER spotless. If my living room, bedrooms, playroom, and bathroom are clean, I guarantee there are dishes in the sink at the moment. If my kitchen, bedroom, etc are clean, I guarantee there are toys thrown around the freaking living room, dining room, in the tub or wherever. My house is messy often, but there's a difference between a messy house and a dirty one. That's crazy to me. And when my husband was deployed, I had a 3 month old and suffered postpartum depression, so it was very messy then. But I'll be damned if my kids are ever taken for having a messy house. Whose house is ever really, truly spotless?

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

The den

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nicolenicole0820

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I'm sorry to hear that ... you should do more investigation on what's going on in the case I work for CPS and that's not a valid reason for removal from the home. Please do this for the benefit of you and your children you may be granted custody again by law !!!!

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del_1531404192_vt38

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How is this possible ? They don't even take kids away from houses that actually need that to happen!

I'm sorry to ask this but how dirty was your house? And how did they find this out?

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greysonandlexismommy

SamoneМама двоих (1 год, 2 года)

Thank you. 😞 It hurts to have them gone. They are all I feel like I have here.

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embracemthrhd2

Naomi Israel Мама четверых детей

That's frickin impossible!! So sorry you gotta go through that

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taurus_family2017

bri 👑💙Мама сына-младенца

Wow im sorry mama i hope and pray everything gets better and your babies can come home 😚

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Clean house vs playing with your kids

Clean house vs playing with your kids This is always a fun one. I often hear the excuse of "I would rather play with my kids then have a spotless house" as a reason for not having a clean house (and I don't mean clutter...I mean actually dirty). Personally I think that's a load of crap. I have quite a few kids who are disgusting pigs....but my house is always company ready and I don't spend all day cleaning in order to keep it looking nice and presentable. Granted I do have indentured servants in the form of children and a husband but even when my kids were babies it was never a difficult thing to accomplish. I spend roughly 1 hour a day cleaning and use the Motivated Moms app (which is awesome) and so have plenty of time to spend with my kids AND have a clean house. So, what's your opinion? Is it really 1 or the other? Or are people making excuses to justify their mess?

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