Why is having a c section seen as weaker or that we didn't give birth? My husband brought it up today because he's seen people say that on facebook and it made him mad. I risked my life to bring my baby here. I woke up intubated. I couldn't lift my arms for a week after she was born, my husband had to feed me. Day six I could barely breathe because the anesthesiologist messed up so bad and none of it mattered because I brought her into the world. How does that not count?
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@fabledturtle I agree whole heartedly. People need to be more supportive instead of always trying to 1 up one another. At the end of the day I've never met a woman who compared giving birth to going to a spa so which ever way the cat is skinned it's no walk in the park lol
@kimny I really hate that we can't just focus on raising great kids. I think sending out people who can change the world is more important than whether or not you are able to push a baby out or whether or not you do it drug free. People are so judgemental 😩
If there were an easy way, guys would do it 😂😂
@rhealize I'm too weak to push so if I tried the doctor almost guarunteed would have had to do a c section anyway. I ended up going into labor the day of my c section so I got a little taste of contractions and those are no joke either, mama. There is no easy way to have a child!!
Csection is more life threatening and recovery is gruesome in comparison to a vaginal birth. Not to mention after having your intestines removed out of your body and rearranged, you have to come home in less than 2 weeks and still hold your baby on that fresh wound when most abdominal surgery patients don't lift anything for months. Whoever thinks c sections are a walk in the park are idiots who want a false sense of superiority over the next woman. Just like women who think women who don't breastfeed are less than those who do.
I had both naturally and have the highest respect for C section mommies. Somehow pushing a watermelon through my lady bits seemed easy, but going under a knife just terrifies me! I was so scared of the possibility through both pregnancies!
Honestly the worst pain for me was my back because they tried to stick the spinal and epidural so many times,my back was purple 😖. I think it's so beautiful that we get to create life and raise children I don't see how the way we give birth changes who we raise! I still have to explain to people why I couldn't do it naturally and why I couldn't breastfeed 😒 @haleybae
I deleted my last post🤦🏾♀️ I already seen that it was going left. 🥴
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I personally think a c-section is worse i never had one and give props to anyone that has