You never know how people feel until you have experience it .I watch my auntie smile every day knowing she got to see how her child hands were created but never ever to hold his hand while playing at the park or saying grace. She would buy us everything we wanted but i just couldnt not see her pain until I lost two of my babies because of a miscarriage. Sometimes it feels good to give but cherish every moment you get with your famlies and hold your children's hand and take time out of your life to cherish them. You will never understand somebody life just by a picture.