Hey mummies! My baby girl has been in a bedtime routine now since 4 weeks old. She's now 91/2 weeks old. She has her last bottle about 7.15-7.30 then goes down to bed for the night. She's not waking up for her feed around 10-11pm and sleeps till around 3pm. I've woke her up for her feed around 10-11pm but I find it makes her wake more through the night. Just wondering if there's a way I can change the bedtime around a bit where she has a catnap then feeds around 9pm then goes down the night and will sleep till around 6am. She's probably still too young to sleep through the night but when I hear other mums say their baby sleeps through the night, I wonder why my baby isn't.
Ugh ! I was trying to get paisley to latch and she was screaming up a storm (which is why we ALWAYS end up giving her a bottle) her dad gets up to pee looks down the hall at us and just goes back to bed...NOOO I guess I don't need your fucking help though it'd be nice if you'd make a bottle while I'm trying or help her latch...I'm sick of feeling like a failure because I can only pump for her and we can't physically breastfeed !
Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And nephew as would end up more kids that adults and it would Cost so much more plus wanted parents to have a day/night to enjoy themselves. Anyway my "maid of honor" ( hasn't done much to help but cause me stress) has 5 kids her youngest will be around 5 months old she's breastfeeding him and keeps telling me she is gonna try and express ect... but I know she has no intentions of doing that and I worry she's gonna put me on the spot the day before and say he won't take a bottle (cos she wouldn't have tried) so she either can't come or has to bring him. I'm spending a lot of money for her dress, hair make up food ect... so deffo don't wanna be let down. But it's not just her that's got kids the ushers have kids and we said no kids. Now I know it's different as she's feeding him but I dunno what to do!? Do I say she can bring him (if my oh agrees too) or do I say she can't. This all sounds so awful when I read it but there will be two other guests that will have newer baby's than that coming and they arnt bringing them. The biggest thing is she's just not talking to me about any of this she's ignoring my messages and not making contact with me. But she's spoken to a friend about it who told her to talk to me and be honest about it all! Torn tbh as she's already not coming on my hen but still hasn't told me this!!! If she just came to me and said look I'm feeding my baby I don't wanna bottle feed him so either he comes or I can't I'd be happier she's being honest rather than dragging it out making out she gonna try and express. I don't expect her to I said it's down to her it's her baby. May I add that we fell out a while ago as she wasn't bothering with me ect any way we made up and I asked her be part of the wedding again so she could have said then I can but il have a baby then, but she didn't she just said it will be fine il sort out. So stressed ?
So we got in super late last night. Had to carry my daughter to bed. She had the nerve to try and wake me up at 7:30am saying she wanted breakfast. Smh (She wanted me to fix her a spread)🙄 I told her to choose some cereal. I'll fix her a bowl. Of course there wasn't any cereal that she wanted today 😴 I told her spoiled ass to figure it out and I went back to sleep 😂🤣 She ate an eggo.
omg... I'm so depressed my child cries more than she doesnt..The only time she's not crying is when she's alsleep.. but she only sleeps 30 minutes each time. she won't sit in her carseat, her crib, pack n play , her swing, bouncer nothing!!! I have to hold ger 24/7 even when she's sleeping or else she will wake up. I'm tired I don't get any sleep nothing soothes her I don't even remember the last time I had enough time to bathe :'( I love her so much but this is so challenging
Kelly·
It's like she wasn't tired.
Rebecca Yemm·
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Will she not settle when she wakes with just her dummy rather than a bottle ? X
Kelly·
Yeh she does. She used to sleep through been the past 5 nights.
Rebecca Yemm·
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Does she have a dummy or? Xx