@slk620. I think his problem is he don't talk much so he can't really explain himself, but sometimes he will just come up and hit you out of no where, and I have done everything I can think of, idk what I have done I feel bad :/

My son responds best to time out. I don't know how, but he goes right there and doesn't budge. I used to time it, but now he sits there and tells me "mommy I'm ready to be a good boy" when he calms himself down. I've heard of people giving their kids a pillow to hit when they're upset-maybe that'll help if he can't find a better way to express his frustration. Just let him know that it's ok to be angry, but he has to try and tell you what's wrong instead of lashing out. I've always sat mine down and explained things after time outs and it seems to help him as time goes on.