Any other mamas out there whose husbands are defusing sex? We had one event of bleeding after sex a…

Any other mamas out there whose husbands are defusing sex? We had one event of bleeding after sex a few weeks around. My doctor assured me it was normal but he's is TOTALLY taking sex off the table until 6 weeks after birth. Help! Any ladies have experience with discussing that it isn't going to hurt baby? I'm just so afraid we are growing apart because he won't touch m me with a ten foot poleN help!!