How is everyone feeling??
I just pushed through a growth spurt week with my now 6 week old and man! That was fuuuuun ha. I do think it was easier this time around compared to my first though..
Any second time moms feel way more confident this time? I was so unsure and clueless with my first who I had at age 21. Now at 23 with another boy, I'm like "oh I totally got this!"haha
What are your thoughts on me feeling this way?
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@beebaby, love the feeling of being confident! But of course there are times when I'm like what the hell am I doing haha
@kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom, hahah our minds tend to be one of the first casualties to children. I seriously can't imagine the experience of having a baby so early! But gosh so happy how smart our doctors are that everything is okay!! Isn't it crazy how different things can be yet how similar when having same gender babies? So happy for you mama 😍
I had no idea what I was doing with my first son. With my second I was excited, but I delivered him 11 weeks early so it was a whole different ball game. Their situations were the complete opposite (single mom, full term 40 weeker, vaginal birth, formula fed VS engaged, 29 weeker, emergency c section, pumping and eventually breastfed). I was more confident in knowing how to handle a boy already and how to be a mom, but I was more scared about things like how my first son would respond to the itty bitty and the germs that the little guy would be exposed to from big brother. Thankfully everything worked out- Aarem LOVES being a big brother, Oliver is doing so well, and both boys are healthy and happy which helps make me feel more confident. I only feel like I'm losing my mind on occasion. Lol.
I was more confident with my second but when it came to my third I felt like I was a fumbling first timer! I don't have any issues with my first and second but with my third I had mastitis tons of clogged ducts and he lost weight for a few weeks with a horrible diaper rash that made him shake. I thought I was going to sail smoothly with a third baby 😂 oh was I proved wrong!
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@dhamiphoenix, wow what an experience! Every baby is so different, you just never know. I can't imagine clogged ducts omg owwww