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Bethany Swaney
Bethany Swaney
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Finally had it with my friend always putting words in my mouth, and getting pissed off at me when…

Finally had it with my friend always putting words in my mouth, and getting pissed off at me when she asks me for advice then she doesnt like what i tell her. Finally had it. Told her to never ask anyone for advice ever again, because if she wants to ruin her own life not to ever drag anyone else into her bullshit.

I told her the above and she thinks im jealous...im about to block her permenately. How many of you agree with me?

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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Yea. Blocking her perminately. Everyone on here is a better friend than her.

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tiffanyf

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How old are yous if you don't mind me asking ? Lol cause the way she's arguing it sounds like she's in middle school 🙄😂

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tiffanyf

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Comparing her body and the whole " jealously" thing .. I never seen a grown women argue like that lol

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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@tiffanyf97 im 21. Shes almost 22. Ive tried and tried to deal with her, but she talks to me like the picture above all the time. I try to help her when she asks for advice but then she just acts like this. Then she ends up apoligizing, but im done. I cant anymore. Ive always been the more mature out of the two. Tough love is the only way to get anything threw to her though. Ive tried every form of it, so now im doing the last form i can. Cutting her out and letting her fall on her own. She just aploligized again, but i cant accept it. Im not mad at her, im sad. We grew up together, but this is how she treats me. I was always there for her. It doesnt even seem to matter to her. She called me a whore. She always does. Really? How am i a whore if ive only slept with 4 guys? And the last one is now my husband. Unless she refering to the sexual abuse i went through growing up. Yeah i didnt fight back, but thats because i didnt want to get hurt even worse. Im sorry i dont mean to drag yall int any of this, but i needed to vent some to.

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mybabyboyontheway

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Honestly it's rude of u to say don't ask anyone eventually they take it what u told them what if she gets depressed cause u told her not to talk to anyone about it I think it's rude on your part not hers. @bethany_swaney

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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@mybabyboyontheway well when ive been her friend for 18 yrs and she treats me like this, i feel i have every right to tell her that because its always the same advice and she never learns. On top of that if she doesnt like what she hears she bashes you to no end. Would you stand for something like that? Im not trying to start an arguement. Im just being honest. When someones happy and shes not she trys to ruin the way you feel. Shes always negative, and some people never learn. No matter how much you try to help them, they never learn. If she wants to drag herself down then she doesnt need to bring anyone else with her.

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jace16landon21mommy

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Wow. What a petty comeback she had. She's the one who sounds jealous af that you're pregnant and happy. What grown ass woman compares her body like that. She sounds like my 16 year old sister. As far as someone else saying it was rude, I don't agree. We don't know what transpired before all of this. Her reply makes me think she's the problem here. Cut that bitch off. You don't need that negativity. She has no argument so she resorts to name calling. Extremely immature. I hope she doesn't have children.

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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@jacesterlingsmommy she wants children even though she hates kids in general. I already cut her off. My child is not to see her, ever. I agree on the body thing though. I didnt marry my husband because of how he looks. I married him because he respects me and loves me. Because he always has. Its like i told her right before i blocked her, i have nothing to be jealous of. Im happy, married and about to have a baby. I have everything i could ever want.

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del_1514674416_deleteduser0000

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What does appearance have to do what's going on? She's just mad that she got put into her place. She wasn't a friend in the first place hon. She sounds like a wack job. Good riddance

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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@tatianag704 i has no emojis to express anything lol. Anyway...yea if you knew her personally like i do and well...you watched her change and all...the vibe you got from her is at least half of it. Shes also a blonde...like a blonde blonde blonde...im not trying to be mean to blondes...my sisters a blonde but shes smarter than me...blonde is the only way i know how to describe this used to be friend...she has blonde hair sooo...lets settle with the blonde goes into her brain, it isnt just her hair color.

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del_1514674416_deleteduser0000

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Despite the her hair being blonde, she wasn't your best friend at all. You're better off not having her in your life. She will bring negativity to your life and she will drag you down with her.

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bethany_swaney

Bethany Swaney

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@tatianag704 Thats part of what i was trying to tell her. The whole time up until those two messages i showed on here. She doesnt get why everyone stops talking to her at some point. Shes self absorbed and only cares about herself and her own life, even though shell deny it. Yet...well lets just say youd have to read through the whole message history to really get inside of how she thinks. Shes an easy person to read. Far to easy, but when you start looking at how she thinks...you feel yourself both going insane from wanting to punch something, and you feel like your loosing quite a bit of your IQ level.

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