I'll never do the cry it out method with Lincoln. Never did with Patrick and sure as hell won't with…

I tried it a few times. But I could make it past 5 minutes lol but, usually wouldn't have to wait 5 minutes. If he started waking up he would fuss, and i would let him be to see if he'd go back to sleep on his own. But if after 5 minutes he started crying or would wake up more with more fussing i would go running

We all have our parenting ways. I never done cio unless I was just over whelmed and needed to walk away from a fussy boy. I always let others voice their opinion but I never bash a mom for it as we are all just trying to get through the young ages. We're all doing what we know is best.

I'm talking about like my family and friends not bashing anyone. But just stating that it doesn't necessarily spoil or not teach your child how to self soothe specially with those moms who have been struggling between cio and soothing . I constantly did but glad I didn't give it to people's opinions @jessica.deshields,

@allyk.xmommy, and yes I tried a couple times but I would cry and feel terrible!! Just couldn't do it

I know you wasn't bashing anyone I'm just saying it's always harder when you have ppl trying to tell you how to parent and making you feel bad. But in reality your just as great of a mom as the next mom in line. 💜