Ladies, I need to vent. We are in the process of closing on a house and money is tight. My SO went out for a guys night on Thursday night and I just looked at the bank statement. He spent $110 😵 on drinks alone. Like wtf that money could have been used on things we need for the house!!! I am so conscious on my spending and it hurts me so much that he would go out and use the little money we had on alcohol!! It's making me resent him and second guess our relationship 😖
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Ugh men. Save up ur own money just in case. He obviously isn't thinking about a future.
Yep I guess u just have to trust him then
That's not acceptable then he needs to own up to what he did and be a responsible father and husband, I'm sorry you're going thru this I hope things get better if you need to talk/vent feel free to message me
I would do the same BUT he makes the money and I have no income so basically I play by his rules @bonbonmomma,
Yes, and unfortunately he's refusing to acknowledge that he had done anything wrong. He always can't stop when he starts drinking. I just want to be with someone responsible and clearly he isn't being that at the moment. 😑 @p0790,
It was an irresponsible move, maybe he got too caught up on the moment and didn't realized how much he was spending until he got the check specially if he was consuming alcohol it's totally not a valid excuse but this could've happened have you confronted him about it ?
Can't say I would b any help. I have to keep my bank card on me or hidden 24/7 so my husband won't buy pills all the time...
Resenting and second guessing one's SO can't be a comfortable feeling -- I'm sorry 😐 Wish I had advice for you...
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄
Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, to...
So I’ve been staying in my mL house for a week because of money issues. I’m in the process of getting back on my feet by the end on the month I’ll be out.. but she’s gave us a talk about “Idk what you guys are going to do but there won’t be no food in the house (for me, her son, out baby) like we have money but when someone talks like that it makes me feel so uncomfortable.. she has money and buys the most expensive juice and snacks. It makes me feel like I don’t want to use nothing in the house...
Is it mean to tell someone who STINKS so bad you can't stand to be in the room with them that they need to use soap when they shower? Lee's friend stays in our camper behind our house (moving out aug 1st or I am) and he doesn't have a car to get to work and he works with Lee so he came with us to my parents house to housesit he wreaks so bad but lee won't let me tell him he needs to shower with soap.., being in the same room as him makes me nauseous !!!!!
Thats very unexceptable and he needs to grow up