Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
can somebody helo me i need money for my kids
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
So I’ve been staying in my mL house for a week because of money issues. I’m in the process of getting back on my feet by the end on the month I’ll be out.. but she’s gave us a talk about “Idk what you guys are going to do but there won’t be no food in the house (for me, her son, out baby) like we have money but when someone talks like that it makes me feel so uncomfortable.. she has money and buys the most expensive juice and snacks. It makes me feel like I don’t want to use nothing in the house.. not even bathroom products. Idc about me but when she said that it made me think about not using her stuff not even for my baby 💔💔 I just want to leave at this point.
Krissi B·
Resenting and second guessing one's SO can't be a comfortable feeling -- I'm sorry 😐 Wish I had advice for you...
Rebekah Bonner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Can't say I would b any help. I have to keep my bank card on me or hidden 24/7 so my husband won't buy pills all the time...
p·
It was an irresponsible move, maybe he got too caught up on the moment and didn't realized how much he was spending until he got the check specially if he was consuming alcohol it's totally not a valid excuse but this could've happened have you confronted him about it ?
Sarah·
Мама сына-младенца
Yes, and unfortunately he's refusing to acknowledge that he had done anything wrong. He always can't stop when he starts drinking. I just want to be with someone responsible and clearly he isn't being that at the moment. 😑 @p0790,
Sarah·
Мама сына-младенца
I would do the same BUT he makes the money and I have no income so basically I play by his rules @bonbonmomma,
Rebekah Bonner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
R u married to him
Sarah·
Мама сына-младенца
Nope @bonbonmomma,
p·
That's not acceptable then he needs to own up to what he did and be a responsible father and husband, I'm sorry you're going thru this I hope things get better if you need to talk/vent feel free to message me
Rebekah Bonner·
Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет), ждёт третьего
Yep I guess u just have to trust him then
Sarah·
Мама сына-младенца
Thanks girl 😊 @p0790,
Betsy V ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
Ugh men. Save up ur own money just in case. He obviously isn't thinking about a future.
Sarah·
Мама сына-младенца
Your right ☹️ sad but true @thatsbetsyv,
AMP·
Ugh!! He needs to stay home and have a drink instead
Brittany Cabot·
Мама троих детей
Thats very unexceptable and he needs to grow up