Ladies, I need to vent. We are in the process of closing on a house and money is tight. My SO went out for a guys night on Thursday night and I just looked at the bank statement. He spent $110 😵 on drinks alone. Like wtf that money could have been used on things we need for the house!!! I am so conscious on my spending and it hurts me so much that he would go out and use the little money we had on alcohol!! It's making me resent him and second guess our relationship 😖
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Ugh men. Save up ur own money just in case. He obviously isn't thinking about a future.
Yep I guess u just have to trust him then
That's not acceptable then he needs to own up to what he did and be a responsible father and husband, I'm sorry you're going thru this I hope things get better if you need to talk/vent feel free to message me
I would do the same BUT he makes the money and I have no income so basically I play by his rules @bonbonmomma,
Yes, and unfortunately he's refusing to acknowledge that he had done anything wrong. He always can't stop when he starts drinking. I just want to be with someone responsible and clearly he isn't being that at the moment. 😑 @p0790,
It was an irresponsible move, maybe he got too caught up on the moment and didn't realized how much he was spending until he got the check specially if he was consuming alcohol it's totally not a valid excuse but this could've happened have you confronted him about it ?
Can't say I would b any help. I have to keep my bank card on me or hidden 24/7 so my husband won't buy pills all the time...
Resenting and second guessing one's SO can't be a comfortable feeling -- I'm sorry 😐 Wish I had advice for you...
Thats very unexceptable and he needs to grow up