Thank you! @angelinamomwife

I feel you @pinkxoxo and @embracemthrhd2

I have four wonderful boys and my husband and I always worked and worked damn hard for us and for our kids to not want for anything. We have never asked for handouts, welfare or begged. We knew what we were getting ourselves into when we started having kids and we vowed to make our kids lives and future very stable we both have our own business he has his own otr trucking business and I have a daycare center. I don't like people who know what the outcome of something to all of a sudden think everyone owes them and its OK to beg .

I know what you mean. I had went off on someone years ago always begging for money at the bus stop. I was going through my divorce and i am getting on the bus just got my son from daycare cause i just got off work. And it was always the same lady asking for money to get on the bus and one day i saw that after i gave here money she went and asked someone else telling the same lie. And i told her i work to damn hard for my money to be just handing it out to a liar dont you see me with my son! And he was 3yrs old at that time.

Yes that's exactly what I mean if you can't take care of the kids you have why do you keep going ugh it irks my nerve @kenitra

Exactly but her mom is in jail and her dad doesn't care but if its like that go to catholic charities or something I'm not obligated to help anyone I bust my ass for everything my kids have @embracemthrhd2

@pinkxoxo, I think social programs are necessary to help those in need, but when someone has a child and needs help but then continues to have more children they can't afford to take care of I am at a loss. And continuing to get pregnant by sorry ass men. Choosing the father of your children is one of the most important decisions you will ever make! My Mom's Group gives a lot of $, diapers, food, clothes, etc. to a few places that house women that have been victims of domestic violence of abuse and leave their husbands and have to start all over again.

Oh wow... that sucks... thats the parents of the 17yr old problem.

@embracemthrhd2 Going to an agency is what you would do if you need help! But theres this one girl who asked me for something who literally had her first kid taken away by acs and is now pregnant again she's 17 and has no schooling or anything dead beat daddy and thinks people are gonna feel bad no!

I don't think that she was implying that there something wrong if you're asking for help when you are in need there are agencies for that. What she is saying this place is for buying selling and swapping and there are people here asking for a handout. It's just the wrong place cuz that's not what that is setup for. Even I have been through crappy s*** and was even married and had to go to agencies for help and there's nothing wrong with that because that's what they are there for to help people in need. @tashamagolan. Thats what i got from the post. Im not going to go into anyones morals tho i got my own damn issues lol.

But then we are wrong for voicing our opinions, I don't understand like wouldn't you want a better life for your child WTF! There's no excuse why either parent isnt working nobody has died from work it's all an excuse they stay home all day collect welfare meanwhile the tax payers are paying for the bs I'm so over it @kenitra

Girl, do no even get me started on this! I actually didn't realize until I joined this app how bad it really is. Girls are like Oh I'm 23 and this is my 4th baby and I need a crib/can't afford rent and also didn't finish high school. And my man doesn't have a job. And we live with our parents. I am 🙄🙄🙄. Just wow. What kind of life are these poor kids going to live. It's just sad really.

@pinkxoxo, we don't have our own place right now but we weren't being careless either when I got pregnant. I know a few people like those girls and they were ablr to get some help but they didn't beg for it, they asked agencies for help

Tell me about it and some of these girls have no morals @embracemthrhd2

My point is if you have not even a place to live why are you being careless? If you know you can't even afford a child why do it @tashamagolan

Fb is a mess lol

I never begged for free clothes but we had friends that offered so we didn't have to buy as much or any if we didn't want to. We got our babies pack n play, swing, bouncer all for free from friends plus a few packs of diapers. Nothing wrong with asking people for stuff.

You should see on facebook there's a room to buy swap and sell baby stuff and there's at least 5 girls begging for free clothes like who does that? @embracemthrhd2

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