Ladies I need your advice. Would you be mad if your boyfriend or husband went out every weekend? Ugh…

Yes. Yes I would. 😒

@dextersmama like ugh but understand why I'm mad I'm so piss off

Guys are clueless sometimes 😒

They are @dextersmama

I used to be but then I like my space at the same time lol. He has to socialize and im a homebody. But yeah to go out every weekend when you have a family can be seen as selfish, thats the only reason i dont like it cause the kids need his attention too.

@embracemthrhd2 every now and then is fine but when we are moving hell no

Right thats understandable

@embracemthrhd2 I'm just annoyed and I wish he understood

Did you tell him, hey we are in the process of moving i could really use your help?

@embracemthrhd2 yes and he just throws it out the window... Plus we moving to another state... He feels its okay cause he needs time to his self

Yeah men are weired... you should say, since you need time to yourself how bout you stay home with the baby and i go out. If the baby sleeps through the night he will have peace and quiet 😁

@embracemthrhd2 right lol ugh he urks my nerves lol he wouldn't last with the baby

Lol that sucks... i dont even know what to say to that 😂

@embracemthrhd2 my daughter is a handful lmao

Shoot its his daughter too he better get used to her lol

@embracemthrhd2 he is not her biological father

Oh.. well yall moving together right?? If so then he's signing up for the job...

@embracemthrhd2 true your right

Once we have a child we become a package deal... my bf has custody of 2 of his kids. They are basically mines cause their mom is nowhere around. And my son calls my bf dad cause his dad is nowhere around. We one big blended family. Not even married but we act like we been together for 30yrs lol

@embracemthrhd2 he loves her as his own...

Thats good. Hope yall have a smooth transition when yall move. Thats exciting.

@embracemthrhd2 thanks you

Hell yea. I dont mind u going out but EVERY weekend? We not teenagers anymore bruh

@goodjourney thank you that's what I said.. And this mother fucker keep bringing up females and like at the end im coming home to you

Yes. I put a stop to that. My husband when we were just dating would leave every weekend with his brother or just walk out the door and not say a word about anything. I was left guessing. I said do it one more time and you can just stay gone. He said since we weren't married at the time that it wasn't that serious. If you can live with me and be in a committed relationship it's serious. He doesn't do it anymore. And if he even thought about mentioning another women he WOULDNT be coming home to me. 😒

It dont matter who he come home to. What u doinh when your gone???

@goodjourney right I wanna kill him ugh

@morganmommy79 its just hurts that he would think about it idk what to do

I feel u

Where does he go and who is he hanging out with? Influence is a major thing with men.

@morganmommy79 his boys and to the club

He should take you out sometime. Hopefully the boys are a good influence but doesn't sound like it. :/

@morganmommy79 he takes me out every week but its the fact that we are moving to another state we need all the money we can have