So my friends girlfriend has been talking to me about planning my friends surprise party this weekend for a few weeks now. I see my guy friend (Jordan) like every other day so it's hard not to tell him. Then yesterday he told me he's planning on breaking up with his girlfriend. So I tell him not to do it till after this weekend (because she already invited everyone and did all the work for the party) and of course, he asks why. I try to explain without telling him about the party but I had to so he wouldn't break up with her just yet. Now I have to spend all day Friday with his girlfriend getting ready for the party. She doesn't know he's gonna break up with her or that he knows about the party and SINCE WHEN DID I BECOME THE SECRET KEEPER THIS IS TOO MUCH PRESSURE
@ashleywhite tell us how the party goes and how he acts with his gf! I am now really intrigued! why does he want to break up with her?
@andrewsmommy, @kate_smith, yeah i know the girl and it would be worse if he broke up with her before the party. The party is tomorrow so she'd have to go cancel everything and that would be humiliating. I like her she's a nice girl so I'm kinda bummed he's breaking up with her but they are very different and want very different things out of life so I get it. I just don't know how I ended up in the middle of it 🙈
@kate_smith yes but think about after the party. People will still be like "he dumped you? Didnt you just throw him a party?"
@andrewsmommy she has already planned the party, might as well have a good time first and not let it all go to waste, and the humiliation of calling it back, I bet lots of people would still call her for details of the party even if they knew it was off, just to poke at her...
If hes going to break up with her he should just do it now. Don't let her put her heart into throwing him a party just for her to get dumped.
@kate_smith, I will! And they're just too different and they live an hour away from each other. Which isn't far but they're both college students and his mom just died a couple months ago so he kinda just wants to focus on himself right now