Well this was seriously his last chance and he knew it. If he would've told me from the get go who he was talking to and not of lied the whole thing would be slightly different in a way but still I'm done. Again thanks so much! @mommabear17
I'm so sorry you are going through it. I really am. But I promise it gets a little easier every day. Because after a bit you will wonder what the hell did i even see in him, and he will be begging for you. It always works that way. Once my ex knew that I had enough he was crying and begging me for one last chance
@mommabear17 yeah that's how hes making me feel. But I'll get through it eventually. Its just really stressful especially with Riley's 1st birthday next week. I'm seriously just so lost right now.
You got a beautiful baby out of a crappy situation. Take her and run with her(not literally) lol. It's his loss definitely not yours baby girl!
I really do know. Trust me. My ex would leave me for someone else whenever he got "tired" of me and when he realized the chick wasn't shit he would come crawling back and I'd be like it's okay, we will get through it. And in reality once you lose trust its sooooo hard to ever be in the place you once we're and they think you will forgive anything. You are beautiful, your baby is beautiful. You will find a man who will give you the world. Idk your situation but my ex made me feel like I would be alone forever if I wasn't with him. And once I realized he was the one going to be forever alone and figured out my worth I found it. Focus on you and Riley and watch things happen in mysterious ways! Doesn't happen over night but don't give in. Don't settle. ❤
@mommabear17 thank you so much. It hurts so bad but I have to do it for Riley. If I don't get out now hell think its okay for me to keep on. I'm not going to sit here and be treated like nothing.
Sorry to hear this. I was in a dog ass relationship for 9 years looked like a fool with that man. Leaving him was the best decision I had made for my son and I. And now I have an AMAZING husband and family. I didn't realize how much happier my son would be seeing me happy either. And now his ass has 2 babies on the way with 2 different girls and a different gf then them. Sometimes it's for the best. If you want to talk I will listen. Don't let baby see you hurting or upset as hard as it is, because he will be upset too. ❤
We haven't really been talking ect since the I found out first a fee days ago. He's been trying to "talk" to me and "straighten up" but then I found out the truth so I'm 100% done now. I have his things packed @beebaby
I'm talking to his momma now. She need to come get his ass. @beebaby
@laciemarie thank you. I have my daughter to worry about I'm not going to played with like a damn chew toy.
I'm not gonna lie though. He asked me how did I find out it was her. I busted out laughing. Dude, I'm a women. I'm not fucking stupid. @beebaby @twins1987
Good for you for standing up!! 👐👐👐
I can't believe it. I'm frustrated out the ass and want absolutely nothing to do with him, unless it involves Riley. But see, even when we get Into arguments he always say he not going anywhere unless Riley goes too. I'm so scared he's gonna out up a battle with taking her, and not try to co parent. I mean all his family is in MS and his mom is in TX, he has no where to go down her expect crash with a friend @beebaby
I even gave him a chance to tell me if he was really talking to "diamond" and he loed to my face. Like wtf.
@beebaby @twins1987 ion know if y'all remember when I posted about my so talking to another girl?? I think I deleted it. But anyway when I confronted him about it he said it was his cousin (girl) ex girlfriend Diamond. So basically he told me he was calling a dike bae, calling her at work and so on. I didn't believe it. Well I got his phone again and saw the same name. Before hand I was on his old phone and saw a similar number. BOOM the same bitch! He's been talking to someone else the whole time. So I texted her. They've been talking on and off since he moved from laurel in MS. We got together right after he moved down here, and been together almost 3 years. She had NO clue he had a gf, or lived with me. She knew he had a kid but that was it. She don't want nothing to with his ass now either. 😂😂😂
I have an open ear. Even if you want to vent. I wish you the best. Stay looking forward girl. ❤