My boyfriends mom is sitting in our room like hovering over the sleeping baby and like how tf do I tell her to leave us…

Just tell her you're going to close the door so nobody wakes up the baby and go out with her.. then sneak back in lol

Lol lord I can't even stand her @lucyyxoxo_, lik it already takes a lot out of me to let her around the baby and me when he is awake. The only reason why I do it because I'm obligated to

When I lived at home I was so lucky my mom wasn't overbearing. But I don't think it's a problem when it's your own mom lol you're not obligated to but he is half her families side haha

I can't ever say anything to his mother or father because I don't want drama. Even their own kids can't stand them a lot of the time lol i live at their house to which makes it way worse @lucyyxoxo

She got him sick too and I can't say shit about it @lucyyxoxo

She knows your character that's all / perhaps worried little bit (be respectful until you buy your own home :)

I could care less if she's worried lol and obviously I am respectful because I let her hold him and didn't kick her out of the room and never say what I feel or want to say ever. Besides, you don't know her or our situation to understand where I'm coming from. It's a two way street she has to respect me and my wishes as well. And it sad I can't talk to her and be here without walking on eggshells everyday. @saismiles

I'm stuck here and don't have my choice unless I move out of state back to my foster family but I can't do that because my fiancé can't leave this state because of court problems.

I can't take son and me 1100 miles away from him.

Your vibes and response says what's cause your problems momma /your careless with your words .is why she is hovering your demeanor isn't good (be grateful remember baby feels every vibe -&-energy thrown out it starts with us moms being nice even when we THINK we're entitled to our privacy in another persons home /if you don't help pay any bills then smile be nice :) / to grandma she knows more than you :) be humble don't be hateful and talk about a loved one who is still living and helping you :) (❤️

Lol. I do smile and be nice are you kididng me? I never say anything rude to them ever I suck it up EVERYDAY. So don't say I'm careless with my words, I am when I'm venting yes because I have to get it out one way lol. Loved one? She isn't my family. I don't feel any way towards her at all, and don't feel bad about it at all. I'm here for her son and that's it. If you knew his family you would understand. When you like someplace where you don't feel welcome or at home at all, constantly being talked down to, having to listen to them talk shit about their sons no matter what they do, hold things over their heads all the time. Dealing with the mother who drinks way to much is hard. Even their OWN sons hard to bite their tongue with them, and try to avoid them often. So it's bit just me who feels this way. I keep myself in our bedroom everyday because They make my anxiety sky rocket. But beyond that I do bring the baby to them, will sit with them at meals, let them come in the room and have convos with them. But it's not easy for me. At all.

@saismiles

You shouldnt tell her to leave you alone let her spend that time with her grandson. Regardless of whatever dislike you two have for each other dont show your son that hate or dislike at 1 month old. Use her to your advantage and let her watch him so you could get some rest or heck even go on a date night with your man or even a girls day and spa or something. But be thankful you have someone there. Im a stay at home and i don't have that luxury of some one watching my kids so i could have time to my self. I have 4 kids and 33 years i need some me time or even a date night with my husband but after 3 years of being home with them its ok ive learned to accept that they are more important than me right now. Hope i was able to help a little bit. Im here if you would like to chat

I don't trust not even a little bit to watch my son. And of course I let her see him whenever because I'm obligated too lol I don't keep her from him @blessed_mommy6, ,

my mother in law tries to wake up my daughter its so annoying!

She tried last night when she was drunk and I had to almost pull her outta the room lol I was like "linda shhh" @babeylarissa,