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KileeJ · you! Posted 1 sec ago My sons father and I were never married and he lives in a different state. My induction…

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My sons father and I were never married and he lives in a different state. My induction was scheduled 2 weeks ahead of time but he still didnt make it to the birth and is not on the birth certificate. I have an open door policy with him to visit but hes only been 3 times in almost 3 months. He filed for paternity recently because I stopped replying to his text unless he was asking about the baby, otherwise all he wanted to do was argue or harass me and my question is can he try to get physical custody and take him from me? I dont have a problem with visitation just dont want to lose him. His dad is spiteful and I could see him doing this out of spite. I know I have to be proven unfit and I know that I'm not unfit but I've seen crazier things happen

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

@kileebananas neither has Landon. I'm excited to see how he does with other babies lol

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, yes! He hasn't met any babies his age yet lol

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

@kileebananas definitely will. You can message me any time if you need any advice or anything. Our babies are close in age, it'd be fun for them to meet :)

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, ohhhhh! Well next time let me know! I love it here lol

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

@kileebananas good, it should. If you need anything you can always talk to me. I go over that way a lot too. You're lucky to live there!

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, ok that makes me feel better lol

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

Yeah I'm in florida. Girl you're good. They're going to favor you. Especially in the state of florida. There was a law 5 years ago that said mothers get sole custody if fit from ages 0-5yrs. The lawyers told me this and they said that almost all child custody judges in florida still go by that law even though it's non-existent now. They will always favor the mother. The bond between mother and baby is solely important but leaving visitation rights so the father can still bond with baby as well.

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, also it's been almost a month and I still haven't gotten anything so idk what's going on

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, are you in Florida?

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

@kileebananas I finally got my man to cancel the petition and we are working on things so I'm glad. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Your little man doesn't deserve it. But after every lawyer I've seen, I was very well convinced that courts favor the mother. If she isn't unfit and the child has been with the mother in the period of time seperated from the father then the mother will get sole custody. Especially when they're babies. Up until 5 years old, mothers get sole responsibility

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kileebananas

Kilee JМама сына-младенца

@shayswayy, it only makes me so mad because he didn't want anything to do with any of it while I was pregnant unless it was on his time/terms now he wants to act like father of the year and like I'm the bad person??? He'll text me randomly and be like why are you ignoring my texts and I'm like you have not called or text me in weeks and he'll try to act like he has I'm like ok then why have I not received them but I'm miraculously getting this text????

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shayswayy

ShannonМама сына-младенца

I'm going through the same thing 😔

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mommysbabies

Ashley Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

Usually they try to keep baby with mom unless there is a reason baby shouldn't be with you just make sure you save all the texts of threats and harassment

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

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