KileeJ · you!
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My sons father and I were never married and he lives in a different state. My induction was scheduled 2 weeks ahead of time but he still didnt make it to the birth and is not on the birth certificate. I have an open door policy with him to visit but hes only been 3 times in almost 3 months. He filed for paternity recently because I stopped replying to his text unless he was asking about the baby, otherwise all he wanted to do was argue or harass me and my question is can he try to get physical custody and take him from me? I dont have a problem with visitation just dont want to lose him. His dad is spiteful and I could see him doing this out of spite. I know I have to be proven unfit and I know that I'm not unfit but I've seen crazier things happen
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@shayswayy, yes! He hasn't met any babies his age yet lol
@kileebananas definitely will. You can message me any time if you need any advice or anything. Our babies are close in age, it'd be fun for them to meet :)
@shayswayy, ohhhhh! Well next time let me know! I love it here lol
@kileebananas good, it should. If you need anything you can always talk to me. I go over that way a lot too. You're lucky to live there!
Yeah I'm in florida. Girl you're good. They're going to favor you. Especially in the state of florida. There was a law 5 years ago that said mothers get sole custody if fit from ages 0-5yrs. The lawyers told me this and they said that almost all child custody judges in florida still go by that law even though it's non-existent now. They will always favor the mother. The bond between mother and baby is solely important but leaving visitation rights so the father can still bond with baby as well.
@shayswayy, also it's been almost a month and I still haven't gotten anything so idk what's going on
@kileebananas I finally got my man to cancel the petition and we are working on things so I'm glad. I'm so sorry you're going through this. Your little man doesn't deserve it. But after every lawyer I've seen, I was very well convinced that courts favor the mother. If she isn't unfit and the child has been with the mother in the period of time seperated from the father then the mother will get sole custody. Especially when they're babies. Up until 5 years old, mothers get sole responsibility
@shayswayy, it only makes me so mad because he didn't want anything to do with any of it while I was pregnant unless it was on his time/terms now he wants to act like father of the year and like I'm the bad person??? He'll text me randomly and be like why are you ignoring my texts and I'm like you have not called or text me in weeks and he'll try to act like he has I'm like ok then why have I not received them but I'm miraculously getting this text????
Usually they try to keep baby with mom unless there is a reason baby shouldn't be with you just make sure you save all the texts of threats and harassment
@kileebananas neither has Landon. I'm excited to see how he does with other babies lol