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Lakeiya Murphy
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ANY HONEST ADVICE PLEASE.. So I made some serious mistakes in the path. Mistakes that my baby father is having a really…

ANY HONEST ADVICE PLEASE..

So I made some serious mistakes in the path. Mistakes that my baby father is having a really hard time forgiving me for them. We had our baby girl 6 months ago. And just two days ago he said some harsh, hurtful things to me that crushed my heart. I've been short and careless with him ever sense.

Which made him think about the things he has said and he is starting to realize he was wrong for saying those things and he's like he is regretting breaking it off with me because he say "It's hard to let you in again. Not sure if you can handle my heart again? I'm ready to give a lot but giving what u want will take time for me. We are still good together. I just have to let you in again."

What should I do? What should I say?

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kiki2017

Lakeiya Murphy

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Thanks for your advice @rachelle last night he was saying that we should start over, take it slow, deal with the hurt and pain we caused each other and try to move past it and get professional help. I just sat there quiet for the most part... Afraid that if I should any emotion he would use that to hurt me.

rachelle

Rachelleduran

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (12 нед.)

I would be supportive. It's not going to be easy but if he's the one for you, then do what it takes to make it work. Don't let him step all over you though. Make sure when he's ready to forgive, he really is ready to forgive.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do

Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.

Y’all please please be careful and monitor what these babies are watching on YouTube thank god my baby didn’t understand…

Y’all please please be careful and monitor what these babies are watching on YouTube thank god my baby didn’t understand what the thing was saying he showed me the phone and said “scary mama” I think continued to listen to what the thing was saying and I was livid and horrified it was explaining to my son how to kill the whole family while everyone was asleep