My weight is really effecting me mentally !!!!

Yeah it's so hard to find time to do all that @nicolelh

It looks like you're just one year post-partum based on your child's age? Remember, it took 10months (nearly a year) to create that little sweet baby of yours and giving birth is a big deal! Give yourself some credit and grace. You'll get where you want to be in time. Just make sure you are taking care of yourself too. We moms tend to put everyone ahead of ourselves and it's easy to forget that we need to get rest, eat healthy (eat period! Haha!) and find ways to de-stress. Hang in there and be kind to yourself.