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I keep getting told that I'm so small for how far along I am by people. Idk why but it's bothering me like I didn't…

I keep getting told that I'm so small for how far along I am by people. Idk why but it's bothering me like I didn't think I was small especially since this is my first I think I'm showing quite well. What do u ladies think?

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lillyb

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@sdicken24 I'd do to thr labor board cuz that is illegal and can hurt u or thr baby.

@emileemoreland5 Thank you hunny 😙

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sdicken24

Stephanie d Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

yeah, they don't care. I lift over 60 to 70 pounds. and push things 3x my weight..

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lillyb

DezВ ожидании первенца

@sdicken24 if it's stuff ur not allowed to do then they can't have u doing it. Did u give then a note from the doc saying ur pregnant?

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sdicken24

Stephanie d Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@lillyb I agree.. and my work stinks they have me working as if I was not expecting...

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lillyb

DezВ ожидании первенца

@sdicken24 that would bother me too. U do look pregnant hunny. Ugh stupid ppl with their opinions

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sdicken24

Stephanie d Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

this is me at 22 weeks, I was at the point were it did bother me, ppl tell me I don't even look pregnant and that I'm just fat... 😠 it does get frustrated at times...

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lillyb

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@thevloggymommy that's very true lol its like u don't even know how big I should be at this point

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nolongeronmomlife

DeletedМама дочки-младенца

@lillyb, It bothers you because being big and round is beautiful during pregnancy and you want people to notice the progress your baby is making instead of putting their two cents into how big u should be as if they were doctors lol. It use to bother me too and also people who aren't pregnant and or have not had children (or men) seem to think that women should look 9 mos pregnant at like 6 lol!

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lillyb

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@thevloggymommy I'm not worried ♡ I kno I'm healthy and that she is healthy. I gained 7 lbs at my last appt so I'm gaining I just don't kno why it bothers me when ppl say that lol

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nolongeronmomlife

DeletedМама дочки-младенца

I was kinda smallish at 22 ppl use to say that to me. In pictures I looked bigger because of the angles but you look fine to me. My doctor had told me as long as I was gaining weight (only gained 17 pounds my entire pregnancy) I was fine. ❤️💕💋

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lillyb

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@sdicken24 yea baby is healthy so I'm not worried nor have I ever been worried just feel like when ppl say that it take out some of the happiness. Idk why it even bothers me to be honest. I wish it didn't.

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sdicken24

Stephanie d Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

it did definitely at work, but I told my Dr and she said baby healthy and on track. so on the other hand when I have baby, I won't have to lose as much baby weight.. but I do get jealous when I see others due the same time as me. and they are huge...

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lillyb

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@mylife143 I'm not worried about it. Like u said doc says baby is healthy and so am I. I just don't know why it bothers me when ppl say that.

@sdicken24 does it bother u when ppl say that?

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sdicken24

Stephanie d Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I'm 33 weeks, and I hear the same as well Dr said baby measure fine.

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mylife143

Lauren💖В ожидании первенца

Cute baby bump! don't let their words discourage you as long as your little ones healthy as can be and you know you are taking care of yourself then theirs nothing to worry about you look beautiful hun!💕

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morganmommy79

MariluМама троих детей

You're welcome. I miss my bump. Enjoy!

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lillyb

DezВ ожидании первенца

@morganmommy79 That I am doing ♡ it dragged so slow at first and now it's just speeding by and I am trying to enjoy every second I can :) Thank you so much 😙

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morganmommy79

MariluМама троих детей

Everyone shows at diff times and are diff sizes. Don't let them steal the joy of your first pregnancy. You'll get a lot bigger yet. Enjoy it because it goes sooo fast :)

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lillyb

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@morganmommy79 idk why it bothers me cuz I am happy and love the way I look but idk when someone says that to me it like takes some of my happiness out of it.

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morganmommy79

MariluМама троих детей

Everyone is different. I personally think you're right on. Don't let it get to you. U have a cute bump and that's your baby in there 😌

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