@millermommie, right!!! I feel the same way. Like we just co-exist. We don't go out. We barely talk or anything. It's like he's just living there

@kedrababy I used to pray for strength but the man makes me so made I dont need anymore strength cuz I'll choke him out!!! We are literally two people that share an apt and I take care of the kids and everything. He dont make bottles feed them change diapers give baths pack diaper bags get them dressed NOTHING!!!! And the worst part is his mawmaw ALWAYS takes his side her theory is her husband NEVER changed diapers. Yeah well your husband had a real job and worked like he was supposed to and to top it off your mom lived there and helped with the children. So butt out. @cclark289

@cclark289, I was praying for patience to fix things but we take 1 step forward and 30 back. Now I'm hoping I can get strong enough to just move on.

Yes that's how I feel

@cclark289, I know girl it's so hard. I love him so much but like she said above I feel like I do a lot of shit on my own. & if I'm doing it by myself I might as well be alone. But I love him so I don't want him to go 😓

I'm still Makin that decision cause he works my nerves but damn love him at the same time@kedrababy

Even tho I feel like he's barely here anyway

@millermommie, I totally understand. I feel like if we had broke up at the beginning of my pregnancy everything right now would be so much easier bc I would've been prepared and used to him not being around

@kedrababy some days I think the only reason I don't kick him to the curb is cuz I dont want to give birth alone. I love him I just can't stand him. I don't even want him to clean I want him to entertain our child so I can! And maybe not be so nasty like seriously respect our new apr

@cclark289, I guess eventually we will make the right decision whether to stay or go

Yes they are

@cclark289, relationships r hard

Yes

@millermommie, omg he does the same thing! He's so fucking lazy. I will admit he's a little better than b4 I had the baby but damn. Like he won't do anything unless I tell him. I'm like if u see the sink full of dishes y tf I gotta tell u to load the dishwasher. Damn just THINK 💭

@kedrababy I feel u. Mines it trying to become single I think. He dont seem to realize that if I'm already doing everything by my damn sef llf y do I need him there to lay around and do nothing 24/7 when he could just get tf out and I can move on with my life. Acts like just cuz he says he loves me that makes him being a lazy dickface all better. Nope it sure dont

@dee_02dee, lol ughhhh omg. I hate that! Ima kill his ass 🔪

@beebaby yes....yes indeed lol

@kedrababy girl......same 😂 and don't let him have been drinking...omg 😒

@beebaby, girl he just annoying as hell lol

@dee_02dee, really? I love hearing other ppls story. It makes me feel better knowing I'm not the only crazy 1 😅

@kedrababy my heart aches for you. I know the feeling unfortunately. Going through something very similar.

@dee_02dee, exactly. Then he left for a few days. I missed him but at the same time I felt so relieved bc the house was so peaceful

@kedrababy mmmhmmm and you can't see your life without them yet you don't want to spend the rest of your life the way it's going.

@dee_02dee, @alejandraa1314, ik like I'm getting so fed up but I don't wanna give up but I'm tired of all the arguing

Agree @dee_02dee

@kedrababy it's sad....the harder you try the worse it seems to get