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Feel like I'm never going to get married 😒I've been engaged for almost 4 years and we have only talked about it twice.…

Feel like I'm never going to get married 😒I've been engaged for almost 4 years and we have only talked about it twice. It's like the most awkward thing ever to bring up. I love him to death. We've been living together for 6 years it feels like we're already married. I don't know why we just haven't gotten it done by now. Whenever I asked in the past he would say I'd ruin his taxes. Which felt like an excuse. I don't feel like I should even be engaged if we aren't working on our way towards being married. It doesn't bother me and normally I'm not one of those girls who obsesses about getting married but from time to time it really bothers me. I don't want to be his fiancée forever. I'd be nice to be his wife. Have a different last name. Same as my children.

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embracemthrhd2

Naomi Israel

Have you tried sitting on the couch one day going through bridal magazines, and when he asks what your doing say, planning our wedding? Just to see his reaction and what he will say. If he responds bad then u know whats up and you can play it off as a joke or cuss him out. Lol

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harleyquinn13

Harley Quinn

I went through that with my now husband. Granted the first year and half we were engaged, we fought a lot. Almost to the point where it felt like we were going to break up. Then we got rid of some toxic people in our lives and one day he just looked at me and said "let's get married."

We honestly planned our wedding in under six months and shortly after putting money down we found out I was pregnant. 😆 but sometimes it has to be on their terms - for some dumb reason.

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so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her…

so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.