I understand.. I'm really glad I got this opportunity, were a lot more financially stable too so it'll be easier than it was with my first two as well <3 there's a lot of things I wish I could've done with my older two that I couldn't do financially and it broke my heart :(

@mrs.collins

@mrs.collins. have 3 girls and i want to have a little boy and i know my s/o really wants one but our daughters are so close in age we want to wait later on in life to try again especially because it is a struggle.

@ppb14pj16

Yes for sure I'll never have mine tied again after this lol went thru hell for this baby.. My first two were from a previous marriage and are almost 15 and 16 years old my husband now desired children so after extensive research we found one we believed could do the surgery.. Now we have baby girl on the way <3 and the surgery was nothing short of a miracle.. I wouldn't ever recommend anyone having them tied.. We got a bank loan LOL and took the chance of it not working just so we wouldn't regret it later and could say "at least we tried" my husband I'd 50 I'm 34 .. His previous marriage had a hysterectomy so he missed out on a baby of his own til now.. I wish u luck hun <3

@mrs.collins

This will be my 3rd and im really scared even though the procedure and recovery went smoothly. Ill probably just got on birth control now. Im not sure. Something me and my s/o and dr need to talk about

And also keep in mind it was the most painful surgery I've ever had and I've had 2 c sections before the reversal.. It was far more painful than those too @ppb14pj16

@mrs.collins thanks my dr performs them thats why and hes been asking if im gonna want them tied or not just looking out for my safety and health for both me and my baby

Yes I had my reversal on n September after a tie cut and burn was on pelvic rest 8 weeks and we conceived our first try.. Keep in mind its not for everyone and it depends greatly on how much your doctor cuts during getting them cut n burnt we were very very lucky, also keep in mind that insurance does not pay a dime of it and it cost us $6000.00 , also keep in mind that your chances of ectopic pregnancy goes up by 70% we were beyond lucky but we did ALOT of research in choosing a surgeon, we had to travel to the South coast out of state.. I'd HIGHLY recommend finding another form of birth control than having your tubes tied.. @ppb14pj16

Ohkay. Well im having a c section.

Its always done in the drs office if u have baby natural or if you have your baby c-section they do it right there and then

Depends cause my best friend got hers tied and wat they used 2 tie them wit every year it cuts the tube til there's no more

@ppb14pj16 when u get ur tubes tied idk I was supposed to get them tied with my last son but never did so here I am 3 yrs later having my last baby but I heard they don't hurt cause they numb you from the waist on down so you won't feel it

Does it hurt? @ashleywilliams1839 @mirandafamilyoc @cubanese

I heard u can but then I heard moms with there tubes tied they still got pregnant