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jessica jackson
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So I've been talking to my long distant boyfriend that I met online for over a year now. He is in…

So I've been talking to my long distant boyfriend that I met online for over a year now. He is in the army stationed in Fort Worth. I like him. Things are awkwardly different because he is always far away. So it is always texting on Kik or emails. We have Skyped before but not for long. He talks to me when he can and sends money for me and the boys. Which to me is not bad way better than what the boys dad has ever done. I'm thinking of moving closer like I really want to give us and this love thing a try again. because we are quite a distance apart I want to move closer. That would mean moving to a new home, town, job of which my recent job pays well and I just got a promotion but I hate it but no other jobs so far pays around that amount I'm comfortable with and further from family members that help a little yet a lot. Am I putting to much in should I wait and see how things go first with driving back and forth!? What's some advice from some who have been in an similar situation.

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ctrldinsanity

Alicia Gregg-Galida

Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (27 нед.)

I'm happy for you! Having someone to connect with is difficult.

I've been in a long distance relationship which was military. My husband and I are both military. We were friends for a year before dating. And that's when he deployed. He'd send money for whatever our daughter needed. She's biologically not his but he always tells others she is, I don't mind.

The distance is awkward and irritating, among other annoying feelings. But if you've a great paying job and a support system my suggestion is to stay put and give the relationship time. It's not as if he will never have time to take leave, vacation, to come visit. Ask him to call as in phone call and skype more so you're talking more face to face rather than reading messages. It's something that's helped with our relationship (not comparing, promise).

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jessica jackson

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Thank you so much for this comment you've given me some encouragement thanks again I appreciate you for that!

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