I've been trying SO hard to get pregnant. Been off bc since October. What should I do? I

@gregoryshannen8 yes! I sure did

I'm worried it could be him or me or it's just too early and I'm too impatient

Yes I have it right now @gregoryshannen8,

3 days ago @gregoryshannen8,

Yea this would be my first and the longest I have one is like 6 days @gregoryshannen8,

Yea it's usually heavy and sometimes blood clots not too much @gregoryshannen8,

pre-seed lubricant might help along with tracking ur cycle

How do you track your ovulation?

I use my Ovia app @halibug,

Ok maybe you can try using opk's or tracking your bbt

Here's my opk that led to a bfp. You can see that the test line is darker than the control line indicating that I was ovulating soon. I had never had that before because I wasn't ovulating when I thought I was. So maybe if you try using opk's then you can rule out ovulation problems as the suspect.

Sometimes it can take up to a year for your body to go back to "normal" after being off birth control. Some women get pregnant right away and others take time. Get one of those period tracking apps and some ovulation test strips from Amazon (if you don't have them already) and track and record your ovulation and periods. Having sex before your actual date of ovulation is recommended because sperm can live inside of you for up to 12 days. If you wait till the actual date of ovulation you can possibly miss the window. If you're truly worried there's a health concern in you or your partner, go get checked out. Most doctors won't intervene until you've been trying for at least a year. Good luck, and don't stress...It makes it a less enjoyable process :)