That moment when you're trying to talk to your SO and his video game and people he doesn't even know…

I'd cut him. Js.

@raejo, the only thing I said was "fuck you!"

Hide the game cords lol

I have a gamer and i stood in front of the tv. I'll even make jokes when he says he has to finish this game to get so much money

"Oh really how much? Are you going to take me on that cruise with this money you are working so hard to get? It'd be nice to have some one on one time with you living it up on your gamer points 😉😉😉😂"

He eventually realized how ridiculous gaming and ignoring his family was and he pays more attention to us.

@dhamiphoenix, I wish i could like comments! 😂😂 every time I say something about him spending time with his family instead of playing games he says "I do spend time with y'all! I just got off work and I'm tired." 😒

Lol oh yes I've heard that too. I talk to my husband about time management. I get that he needs to decompress when he gets home. He will go take a bath and play a game while in there. No one, including me, is allowed to bother dad during that time. After that (about an hour) he comes out feeling better after a stressful day and really puts effort into family time and house chores.

The gaming that happens as soon as e gets home and into the early morning hours is what aggravates me. He get tired, the house hold is on my shoulders and the kids see him ignoring me so they do it too.

That's my husband...since we got married lol

@dhamiphoenix, yeah he'll come home and bitch at me because the house isn't sparking clean when he gets home and then gets on the game and ignores me until we go to bed.

If he was so concerned he would use his two damn hands and clean it himself.

Jussayin'

@dhamiphoenix, 🙌🏻 yes!!!

My first husband was that was. He was such a tool...I don't let myself feel guilty for not reaching someone expectations anymore. You do what you can while staying sane. That's what matters. As long as there isn't mold growing in your home you should be good ;)

@dhamiphoenix, try telling that to him 😂 he is one of the guys that says my mom was able to keep her house clean with 2 kids while working full time! Every time he says that I just say "well good for her, but I'm not your momma!"

Tell him she didn't work at home which meant his messy ars wasn't home but for a few hours each day. THATS why her house was able to stay clean. He didn't LIVE there.

@dhamiphoenix, I've just learned to ignore him and go on with my day. I've had him bitching about stupid unnecessary shit for almost 5 years

I bet the sun shines out of his ars too 😂 I'm sorry girl. Some people are thick headed and shallow minded...hopefully time and life experiences will help him grow.

When my family drives me insane I listen to this https://youtu.be/92i5m3tV5XY

@dhamiphoenix, basically. His entire family says he narcissistic.

It may help you relax and smile...if you aren't offended by swear words

He sounds it. Sadly they don't change much even with time but hopefully he does z