Мама дочки (2 года)

My bf and I just very recently got engaged. We plan in getting married sometime in the next 3 months. We decided not to…

My bf and I just very recently got engaged. We plan in getting married sometime in the next 3 months. We decided not to tell our family right now. His family loves me and would be happy for us but my family hates him and would be mad at me for accepting. My family has never really cared about my happiness when it comes to my own relationships as long as they are happy. I have really been debating whether to even let my family know that we plan on getting married or not even saying anything to them until after we are actually married. I think my mom would be the only one upset that she missed my wedding even with how much she doesn't like my bf.

Oh my... I understand how you feel... My family wouldn't accept anyone in my life. I guess they were afraid of losing me since I am an only child, but still... I ended up getting married thousands of miles away from home. My mom knew, but wasn't happy and it really weighed on her (and me) that she couldn't attend the wedding. Later on, when the children came and some time passed, they came along and now they even like my husband lol I would say you know best, but just consider that it will probably get better as time passes :) best wishes to you

12.04.2017Ответить

Shantel JohnsonМама дочки (2 года)

@shylamarie that's what I'm debating. I would love to share the news with them I just refuse to tolerate them bad mouthing him. I know my bf has made mistakes but he has been good to me and has raised my daughter since she was 2 months old even though she is not his. Not telling them would be more peaceful but also stress me out because I tell my parents everything. My bf supports me either way. I'm just going bananas on the inside.

11.04.2017Ответить

Shyla MarieМама дочки-младенца

If you can handle the possible backlash from your family finding out, then I say go for it, tell them 😊 but if it is going to hurt you and make your wedding not as enjoyable, then I wouldn't tell them.

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