So my bonus daughter died a lil more than a month ago and i want to do something for her birthday just for my lil family…
So my bonus daughter died a lil more than a month ago and i want to do something for her birthday just for my lil family my oldest 2 always ask about her I was gonna bbq and make some lil brownies and maybe reasle some baloons n let the boys write on them to her does any one have any ideas or even how I could suport my boys or their dad i can tell its hard on them????
Teresa·
I think the best way to support them is talk about your loss. You can start by talking about how you feel. Like say you miss her but you know she is still with you all and always will be.Ask them how they feel and encourage them to talk about their feelings. Let them know it's ok to be sad and cry. Let them know you are there if they need to talk about it or just need cheering up. The 1st step in healing is feeling and facing the issue then with time it will slowly happen.
K Garcia·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Thank you @teresamarie177 it's just hard we didn't get to know her like her mommies side did and when we first had to move away from her I always told them that she would always come finds us and we would get to know her and we were planing on moving up there this summer and it was just cut short
Teresa·
@kristyfae4, I'm sorry I can see how that would be hard..:/