How do you moms get anything done around the house??? My baby only wants to be held. If I put her in the walker: she…
How do you moms get anything done around the house??? My baby only wants to be held. If I put her in the walker: she cries, if I put her in her swing: she cries, if I put her on the floor with toys: she cries, if I put her in her high chair: She cries. But as soon as I carry her she's all smiles and giggles. Help me :( I don't know what to do. Btw she takes very short naps :(
Jami·
Mine has sorta began doing that. I carry him, if I really need to get something done. But it's hard to cook carrying a baby :/
Amanda·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I only get things done when my baby naps nd most of the time I don't get much done
odalys·
Someone got her used to being carried, thats why she cries. Once you know its time for her nap, put her where ever u want, swing, bouncer, or crib you have to just let her cry to get used to it. When my daughter gets fussy like that and nothing works but my arms i put her in the crib and do what i have to do wether she cries or not, plus im preg. And cant be rocking her anymore. You'll feel bad but you'll get over it as soon as you see it works
Ashley·
Мама сына-младенца
Let her cry a bit. Sometimes you won't always be able to hold her. You have things that need done and she eventually catch on and go play.
Jennifer spoores·
Мама сына-младенца
If you don't want to cry you can baby wear
Michelle·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
Baby wearing has saved my life! lol
Maira Avila·
Мама дочки-младенца
@odalys yea her grandparents always carry her when she sleeps over -_-
p·
Baby wearing, or do your stuff whenever she naps or whenever she goes to sleep for the night
Rhiannon V·
Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)
That sounds like separation anxiety. You gotta be careful when dealing with that or it could make it worse. Pretty much just don't make her stay in a different room from you where she can't see you while you're working through it.
My second was a big fuss every time I tried to clean or cook or anything. Even wearing him didn't work. I started putting him in his high chair and just sitting him in the room I was working in. I gave him toys and snacks. He'd cry, but he'd be right there with me and I could talk to him the whole time and reassure him that he was just fine. Eventually he caught on and realized the high chair was boring, and he'd have a much better time if he just played on the floor with his other toys.
It's just a matter of grinning and bearing it until she figures it out. It's not forever. 😊
Maira Avila·
Мама дочки-младенца
@rhealize thank you .
odalys·
Same with me my mom and his dad always carry her 24/7 they got her used to being rocked to sleep. My belly is too big for that so when nothing works for me i just leave her in the crib she'll cry for awhile, no tears. Then play in her crib then knock out lol
Maira Avila·
Мама дочки-младенца
@odalys lol yea I need to start doing that. I Just feel like she'll hate me If I let her cry :(
odalys·
No. I use to think that way too but my daughter still loves me lol if i gotta do something and i know she ate already and shes good ill leave her in the crib too she just has to wait til im done with what i gotta do. When i shower i do the same. Cause once she started crawling she gets into everything! Lol she'll whine but she gets over it
Joannie Lewis·
Мама двоих (младенец)
My 3 year old was the same way and I put her in the carrier and walked with her all day. She grew out of it but I didn't mind because I loved it. When I cooked I just wore her on my back or cooked when daddy came home.
Autumn Latrice·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года)
My 1 year old was the same way, I put on some nursery rhymes for her and she's gotten used to it and doesn't fuss as much