Please read NEED ADVICE mommas I just got into an argument with my mother over something extremely petty like clothes…

Please read NEED ADVICE mommas I just got into an argument with my mother over something extremely petty like clothes and this happens very often especially since I live in her house I just feel like im drifting apart from my mom cause we see eye to eye on about 30 percent of our problems but the other half we are bumping a heads and she's saying extremely hurtful things to me and about me to her husband did anybody else's go through this ? How do I deal with this ?