So my baby should be here this week coming up, the 15th is my due date and sense i am dilated but my water is not broke they said they will probably have to do it for me. So far they are sure I will deliver vaginally with out a doubt, so thing is my BF and I are extra excited about our baby and we are already making plants to take a trip to the beach when he is 5 months old. Lets just say some people are against it, telling me "that's too young to drive 4 hours" and "he cant even come near the beach at that age".. Umm ok my mom took me to the beach the first time at 3months.. Smh idk just needed to vent. We are all excited and people love to just be negitve assuming we are already horrible parents😒
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@caylintay its so sad people think if it is not the way they think it should be it is not the right way. I believe in the fact that not one damn parent is exactly the same, thats why not one human is exactly the same.
@lovefaithkindness yeap this is exactly what I told them. And I am not going to be that over protective mother, I was raised to be out there and do things all my life, of course the typical motherly protection but none of that bubble wrap time stuff.
@raquely thats what we have in mind, just to make sure we manage a good trip for him
We took my son to the beach when he was less than 1 month old and it was a 9 hour drive, I breast feed him and he did fine on the drive! And he loved the water and the beach!
My daughter and I will be driving 11 hours a month after she's born. Sometimes people should keep opinions to theirselves. I've been told some pretty ridiculous things during this pregnancy
Okay my daughter was 2 weeks old and we went and visited my mom it was a 4 1/2 hour drive.. second people have different ways of parenting, they shouldnt bash you about what you decide. I would just tell them if they want to be negative keep it to themselves
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
People just have a way to get to you i already feel so horrible about myself people just make it so worse for me
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
@maddie718. Oh God I just cant wait for his first time with me and his father on this mini trip 💗 make me so happy.