I need advice. Sorry it is so long. A month ago my mother messaged me and was mad because I had not…

I need advice. Sorry it is so long.

A month ago my mother messaged me and was mad because I had not texted her for a week and I told her I had been busy with getting my son ready for his pre school schooling and cleaning the house. Then she told me that she was mad because I never talk to her unless I need something and that is not true and she told me that I need to do something about my 4 year old because he is not potty trained yet (he is now). She also told me that she is mad because she never gets to see the babies unless me and hubby want to go out which is not true she did see them everyday. But now I have not talked to her in over a month because I am tired of her calling me a bad mom and trying to tell me how to raise my kids. Now my whole family hates me because there is no telling what she has told them. Am I over reacting or would yall do the same thing. She is always pointing out the things I am doing wrong and not what I am doing right. I think I am do a damn good job on these too. They are both happy and healthy.