I hate being made to feel guilty because I have like, zero sex drive rn.. probably tmi but, before I…
I hate being made to feel guilty because I have like, zero sex drive rn.. probably tmi but, before I got pregnant we would have sex all the time! Like, no more than two days without it. Now, we don't like, at all because I'm never feeling good.. even if I feel okay physically, the 'urge' just isn't there. (We have had sex a couple times where I basically just decided to suck it up and do it because it would make him feel better) I hate feeling like I'm depriving him of something that makes us feel closer and less stressed.. But at the same time I'm pissed at him for making me feel like shit because I'm not 'in the mood'.. ugh.
Is/was this a problem for anyone else?
Sierra·
I'm the same way!!
Katii Mason·
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@first.time.mommy ugh! On top of it, because we're not sleeping together.. whenever we do, it starts to hurt pretty soon after we start and I'm Reaaally sore by the end of it :/
👑Ore👑·
Currently going through the same
Katii Mason·
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So annoying 😑 @momofdeuce just wish my sex drive would come back so this annoying fight would endddd
Robyn ·
Мама троих детей
Then you add a few kids to the mix and your just so exhausted it's not even funny the struggle is all too real
👑Ore👑·
Girl right now my hubby hasn't been too bent out of shape with me although I know he wants it bad ....but the last time we had sex it hurt BAAAD idk what happened but it made me cry ...I've just been so uncomfortable when trying and just worn out to even think about it.....hoping to get t together because I've been feeling real distant from him 😪
Katii Mason·
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yeah, we've been fighting a lot lately and he always brings it back to "if we were having sex I would feel better/not so distant from you" blah blah blah.. I mean. I definitely agree w him about feeling distant.. but for him to say ALL of our problems stem from ME not sleeping w him just.. grr makes me so mad! I want to feel closer to him but I don't want to feel guilted.
Also, I have like.. this rash around my mouth rn (long time problems with eczema..) so we can't kiss until it heals, and I told him I don't really want to have sex if we can't kiss, it feels so.. impersonal? And I told him I felt that way and he just made me feel even shittier about it. Like, i want to have sex to feel closer and more affectionate.. and He justs want to so he can 'feel' good. I just feel like we're on completely different wavelengths @momofdeuce
dawn·
I completely lost my sex drive when i was pregnant. We had sex maybe 5 to 6 times my entire pregnancy. And that's only because I was doing my wifey duty. Lol my husband was understanding he never made me feel bad about it but he usually had little snide remarks. My sex drive is almost normal as before pregnancy.
Monica·
It's the opposite for me when I was pregnant we had sex a lot! Now I have zero sex drive 🤦♀️
Megan Monaghan ·
Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
Omg I can totally relate!!! ITs been such a struggle for us sometimes we get in really big fights about it and it sucks so much
Katii Mason·
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Ugh that's where I am rn.. I hate it😑😑 @megsandbabes