Why can't men be faithful?? I don't get it! I mean u bare a child for them and that means jack shyt!!

@dhamiphoenix thank you for the positive words

*and

@daradee01, I hope it goes well hun. I've been there! There can be healing if there is a true change of heart band actions

@dhamiphoenix well probably talk to tonight

@dhamiphoenix thank you for the story. I appreciate it.

@daradee01, it's his lack of respect.

When my relationship went to hell at one point I had a guy friend who was divorced. He told me that it does not matter if you "get any" once a year or once a week. You stay faithful and work through the relationship issues unless one walks away for good. He had tried saving his marriage for a year and a half and only had sex once with his wife before she left him for another man.

He's not super religious and is actually the exact opposite. He just has morals and knows what being a man truly means.

Your man needs to respect you no matter what is going on in your lives.

I have been handling my own for a while. It's his sex drive..it's outta control

Thx @dhamiphoenix & @beebaby

It's selfishness. I'm sorry you are going through that. Know you are worthy of faithfulness and respect. Own that and remain a powerful woman darling. He needs to know you can handle your own and if he decides to not then you can handle your own life....and someone else can do his job better AND they would appreciate it.

I just don't understand. They want to give their time and energy to someone who isn't even being their for them. I just makes no sense

I'm sorry but yes they can be pigs 🤐