I thought I could hold off getting a job til next year when my son is at least 18 mos, but it turns out I have to get one now. He is only 3 Mos and I would have my sisters watch him as one option but I'm worried that he may be grow to be closer to her and start treating her like his parent instead of me since they would be spending most of the time together.I don't know what to do...
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thanks for that @momofdeuce and yes I'm grateful that it would be a family member, I know he would be well taken care of..but it would break my heart if he started to get more familiar and prefer her. also I would be most likely missing all of his milestones..
Unless you will be leaving him for months at a time you have nothing to worry about .....also technology is amazing so your just a video call away
He already knows who his mommy is and nothing will change that !
That's one reason I'm glad I am to stay home with my son . I did not want to miss his milestones and wanted to be apart of him learning new things. I know most mommies don't have this option and it takes a toll on them as they have to hear through someone else what their child has done....Sooo yes I totally empathize with you and your feelings