So me and my husband wanted 4kids. We have 3girls right now(3,21months,9months). My husband is a police officer and his schedule is crazy and sometimes he's not always around for everything. Plus he works a lot of night shift(6pm-6am). I really want to go threw the whole pregnancy one more time before tying my tubes. But I feel like I won't be able to do everything by myself. We wanted to wait 3-4yrs but I think it will be even harder because I'll be starting all over and all kids will be in sports/school. My 3yr old starts school next year and is going to be in sports. I'm not sure how to do everything because I'm the one who is going to have to do everything like go grocery shopping with all 4 or dr appointments or sports/school stuff. So we had agreed to tie my tubes and that we are fine with the 3 but I don't want to regret it. I know I'll be fine with just my 3girls. It's just when I see newborn baby pictures or pregnancy photos I miss that and want that. Please moms give me so advice!
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@embracemthrhd2, yeah I think me and my husband are going to talk about it again tonight.
Then I guess you have to ask yourself if those risk out weigh the desire to have another child. Or Make a pros and cons list... tubes tied vrs having another child.... see what the verdict is...
@embracemthrhd2, well that's what I was going to do but I don't want the side affect of birth control.
@nessairieray, yes but except my mom has stage 4cancer and can't help with the kids and we live 2hrs away from family.
Awwwwww how cute lol I think you should have another baby especially if it'll make your husband happy! ☺️😊 I'm sure it will be stressful doing it alone but that's why we have our mothers for lol
How bout getting a birth control that last 3-5 years so you have time to think about it... if you still feel the same way 3-5yrs from now then tie your tubes, if not then try for another.
@mskandice, you must have not read it correctly because I said we wanted 4 not that we have to have 4! Right now it's not stressful because I can handle and I'm use to all 3! I'm not saying it's going to be easier or harder I'm saying. I'm worried I'm going to regret it but I'm happy with my 3! Thanks for your opinion though! 😊
Why do you have to have 4 kids? Why not just the 3. I mean if its already stressful, adding another baby wont make it any easier. I say really think about it 3 is plenty. Also if u must have the 4th maybe wait a few years so that the other kids are more self sufficient.
@embracemthrhd2, thank you!