Don't u think it is funny how our SO don't know how tired we are we had barley sleep when we were…

Don't u think it is funny how our SO don't know how tired we are we had barley sleep when we were creating a human inside us then we are the ones up all night and day with them and we can't say we are tired but our SO say they r tired but they get to go to bed and sleep and we do many things ... we are amazing people and I am worried about money and Idk how u guys do it any advice and I'm just upset as well cause my SO chooses to buy cigarettes and now again I have to pay his car bill and I'm not even the one working... but my son is wide awake but it's ok I love him