Husband said he would rather be at work then around me..... I will never be good enough fir anyone…

Screw him! If that's how he feels then fuck it. You have a child who looks up to you and loves you. That kid is what is important. @katelynn,

@jgh2398 thanks I just mess everything up. I just wanna die

When someone talks to you like that, it means the complete opposite. He's not good enough for you. He's not supposed to belittle you or make you feel terrible.

There are two ways you could handle that situation. One, take some time and try to be understanding. Talk to him and figure out why he doesn't want to be around you. See if there's anything you two can work on that will change the way he feels.

If that doesn't work, or there's really no reason he can give you for saying that, you should let him see what it's like without you for real. Stop making him food or washing his clothes, take little trips to fun places with just your daughter, even if he's home. Don't do anything for him that you normally do. Just tell him that if it's so terrible to be around you, he can do it on his own.

@rhealize I don't drive BC of my anxiety. And he would just take his clothes to his maws house and they already bash me enough themselves

We're human we're supposed to mess up and make mistakes. It's ok. I agree with @rhealize, try to talk it out. But just remember you have a little one who is way more important.

@katelynn,

What an ass

Your daughter and you are the most important in your life. What a jerk for saying that! Let the in laws talk trash, they don't define who you are. Have confidence in yourself because that is what ur baby needs to see and feel so she can grow to be strong and confidently. Men can be such jerks!