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Meghan
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I give props to mommy's who had a natural births, medicated birth, homebirth, or a c section ,…

I give props to mommy's who had a natural births, medicated birth, homebirth, or a c section , mommy's who bottle fed, tube fed, or breastfed, preemie mommys, full term mommys, mommys who adopted or had a surrogate , mommys to multiples etc. because we're all in it together...

I feel like I messed up. Im a very proud c section mommy , but I didn't need one. I give SO much props to the brave mommys who had one too. I was making to much noise and I said I can't take it and I asked for a c section, although when they did the c section they said the baby wasn't coming down while I was pushing me his head wasn't descending and he turned. Still I feel like a failure for asking instead of keep going, I also gave up breastfeeding ...

I regret not doing things differently 😢😢😭

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caprisun710

caitlin capri

Мама сына-младенца

There is always next time. You can ask for a vbac. You did what you thought was right for you. Every lady is different. But c sections are hella tough. Props to you mama. And that beautiful little boy ❤️

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typicalwifegirl

Rhiannon V

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

I don't think there's anything wrong with the choices you made. It just depends on you and what you think you can handle in the moment.

I was going to have a natural birth with my first and was so proud of myself until the contractions started. I changed my mind and opted for an epidural right away.

I had friends and family alike telling me for weeks how shameful it was that I gave up so easily and put myself and the baby at risk by not going natural.

I was also planning on strictly breastfeeding him, but I supplemented with formula once cause my boobs needed a break, and it was easy. He ended up being half breast, half bottle.

Despite both those decisions, he didn't turn out any worse than he would have had I gone with my original choices.

As long as baby is happy and healthy, I think whatever choices you made were just fine. You don't have to feel shame or regret. You still did good. 😊

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mommysweigart

Megan Sweigart

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (18 нед.)

I feel you i want to breastfeed but it was too much for me so he went on formula i wanted non-medicated but i got an epidural this time around im doing it the way i planned even though my little boy is fine and im okay with the chooses i made but i want to prove to myself i can do it

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