Went to the regular doctor today. They were really no point in me going because I waited forever just to get one paper saying I can get blood work from the hospital oh but get this my so called father that just decides to come in my life tells me he hopes I'm not pregnant and I'm throwing my life away. I'm already so blessed by just the thought of a human growing inside me. Anyways I'm almost 18, my brother (19 almost 20) keeps calling me a whore and everything else. When I cock an attitude back I'm the one that gets in trouble and he threatens to hit me again. I honestly don't know what to do... I feel like they are trying to stress me out to make me loose my child. Which if that's the case I will go off. Oh and my parents are trying to keep me from my fiancé like that's going to change the fact I'm 16 days late from my missed period. Does anyone know if you are pregnant you can get married without consent so you can move out? I read something about that earlier.
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I know if u go to ur ob and ask if u can talk to them by urself without ur mom or dad there n let them know what's going on u don't need to be a victim of violence especially when you're pregnant
@blessed-n-proud8, could they make me come back? Could they lock him up for me staying with him?
@mirandafamilyoc, thank you! It's pitiful how they are doing me. I'm trying my best to get out of here but I don't know how to go about it. Most the cops and social workers here are pricks. I don't agree with social services.
Pray everything will go ok just hang on until ur 18 get out of there u don't need to be getting hit by ur brother n ur parents telling u bad things not good for u or the baby
@blessed-n-proud8, they can't make me come back.. or arrest him. I'm 17 he's 19.
@blessed-n-proud8, they make me loose my child and I'll go off. My baby and fiancé is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I'm not going to let anyone take them from me without a fight.
@blessed-n-proud8, they said if I leave I'll be reported as a run away. They got cameras all around the house and they will try and lock him up.
I'd slip a note when you go to obgyn because usually you leave a pee sample in a window they can't go in bathroom with you
@blessed-n-proud8, they threatened to get him for rape (but it was consensual) and threaten him nonstop. I just find it stupid. They have treated me like this since they found out I maybe pregnant.
@blessed-n-proud8, see I've tried to leave. Had the cops out here a variety of time before I got pregnant. They are just trying to stress me to make me loose my child. They told me today they weren't ready, but it's not up to them. Then they tried talking to me about aborting my child. Like hell no! How'd you go about it?
@mommy2benntley, the problem with that is that I don't see the doctor by myself. They are always in the room with me. I do fear of living here because my brother has hit me before. If I get someone higher than them involved like the cops then I get grounded. I'm just tired of being around dope headed people that claim to be christians. The social workers down here knew my brother hit me but sent me back to this hell hole.
Got ya you can always say your afraid of your home situation at the drs and they can help
No but you can google it how far from 18 are you
Depends what state you live in. Call your local police department. Or the magistrate office and see if they can answer that. I'm from sc. So I had to have parental consent to be on my own, in school, working and a reliable vehicle. It honestly varies on state
I know when you are 18 you can each state is different