Anyone else feel like they can never do anything right in their mother-in-laws eyes .. 😞😞😞 I've done nothing but be nice to her and include her in everything, but my boyfriends step mother treats me way way better than his actual mother does 😞😞 it really hurts too because he is a mommas boy and I feel like I just keep failing 😞💔 Any advice?
As a mother of a child with special needs I am absolutely disgusted by the woman on here who suspiciously began posting pictures of her child recently...seemed too showy like he was on display. Confirmed stolen. She’s not the mother.
Will your Mom be in the delivery room? My mom made it sound like she was gonna be in the delivery room when I give birth, and quite frankly, I would just like it to be me and my fiancé. It's our first, and I want to share that special moment with just him. I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I know this is something she would really like to be a part of. So I feel bad telling her no.
I started feeling down cause baby girl won't be breastfed. Kinda feel like I'm failing her. Any advice?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I don’t like the way I look😞
Madeline Kilgore·
В ожидании первенца
Girl I can relate to you on so many levels here. For the first 3 years of our relationship my now MIL absolutely hated me. I did nothing to her for her to dislike me, I did a lot for her family and her younger kiddos, and helped my husband through the hardest time in his life but yet she still hated me. I just kept being myself, stayed kind and smiling even though I knew I wasn't liked. She likes me now that she realizes what we have is real and I'm not going anywhere.
Honestly my best advice to you is to just be yourself, you should not have to put on a front to have anyone like you. She needs to know you for you. What matters most is your relationship with your SO, everyone else is secondary but I always told myself that regardless about how we felt for one another we would be in each other's lives forever so I wanted at least a understanding with us. Maybe ask her to go out to lunch? Or to go shopping, get pedicures something that you guys can bond over. I'm not saying that it will help but it might show her that hey you're making an effort here and she's the one who isn't.
Tessa·
Мама сына (3 года)
Either avoid her or stand up to her. I finally stood up to mine and got the point across. Haven't had a problem since.
deleted-user·
If she isn't respectful of you then I would avoid her. You don't have to get her approval. She is your mil only. I refuse to let my mil take my joy. I am cordial but I'm not kissing butt
Ann Ermey ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It takes time my mil thinks I hate her and I've barely interacted with her. Apparently I give off a bitch vibe even if we're nowhere near each other lol
Krystal·
Мама дочки-младенца
Just keep being you! MIL can sniff out if you aren't being genuine in a heartbeat. Just gotta hope your relationship grows with time, maybe make an effort to do something one on one with her