Anyone else feel like they can never do anything right in their mother-in-laws eyes .. 😞😞😞 I've done nothing but be nice to her and include her in everything, but my boyfriends step mother treats me way way better than his actual mother does 😞😞 it really hurts too because he is a mommas boy and I feel like I just keep failing 😞💔 Any advice?
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Either avoid her or stand up to her. I finally stood up to mine and got the point across. Haven't had a problem since.
It takes time my mil thinks I hate her and I've barely interacted with her. Apparently I give off a bitch vibe even if we're nowhere near each other lol
Just keep being you! MIL can sniff out if you aren't being genuine in a heartbeat. Just gotta hope your relationship grows with time, maybe make an effort to do something one on one with her
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Girl I can relate to you on so many levels here. For the first 3 years of our relationship my now MIL absolutely hated me. I did nothing to her for her to dislike me, I did a lot for her family and her younger kiddos, and helped my husband through the hardest time in his life but yet she still hated me. I just kept being myself, stayed kind and smiling even though I knew I wasn't liked. She likes me now that she realizes what we have is real and I'm not going anywhere.
Honestly my best advice to you is to just be yourself, you should not have to put on a front to have anyone like you. She needs to know you for you. What matters most is your relationship with your SO, everyone else is secondary but I always told myself that regardless about how we felt for one another we would be in each other's lives forever so I wanted at least a understanding with us. Maybe ask her to go out to lunch? Or to go shopping, get pedicures something that you guys can bond over. I'm not saying that it will help but it might show her that hey you're making an effort here and she's the one who isn't.