Anyone else feel like they can never do anything right in their mother-in-laws eyes .. 😞😞😞 I've done nothing but be nice to her and include her in everything, but my boyfriends step mother treats me way way better than his actual mother does 😞😞 it really hurts too because he is a mommas boy and I feel like I just keep failing 😞💔 Any advice?
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Either avoid her or stand up to her. I finally stood up to mine and got the point across. Haven't had a problem since.
It takes time my mil thinks I hate her and I've barely interacted with her. Apparently I give off a bitch vibe even if we're nowhere near each other lol
Just keep being you! MIL can sniff out if you aren't being genuine in a heartbeat. Just gotta hope your relationship grows with time, maybe make an effort to do something one on one with her
Girl I can relate to you on so many levels here. For the first 3 years of our relationship my now MIL absolutely hated me. I did nothing to her for her to dislike me, I did a lot for her family and her younger kiddos, and helped my husband through the hardest time in his life but yet she still hated me. I just kept being myself, stayed kind and smiling even though I knew I wasn't liked. She likes me now that she realizes what we have is real and I'm not going anywhere.
Honestly my best advice to you is to just be yourself, you should not have to put on a front to have anyone like you. She needs to know you for you. What matters most is your relationship with your SO, everyone else is secondary but I always told myself that regardless about how we felt for one another we would be in each other's lives forever so I wanted at least a understanding with us. Maybe ask her to go out to lunch? Or to go shopping, get pedicures something that you guys can bond over. I'm not saying that it will help but it might show her that hey you're making an effort here and she's the one who isn't.