@bearaboo4, depends. Is she a mom or do u think she would be a good mom ask your k if he consider marriage with her. 4 months isn't that long but if he plans to keep her around a while I say it's ok but I would have a one on one talk with her woman to woman if he is the type to have multiple women or has had lots of women in the past I say absolutely not bc if she won't be around forever I don't think she needs to get close to your kid. It's really hard to tell bc we do t know what kind of person she is.

@brendabravo93, I will thank you

@rhealize, thank you so much I will try for my daughter I jus get scared I don't want anyone hurting her because I know them to break up and I know that will hurt my daughter 😢

@bearaboo4, that's okay :) I know it's difficult but you should give her a chance

If she's showing an interest in your child, I think it couldn't hurt. If she's with the child's dad, and you want him in your kid's life, it's okay to let her build a relationship with your child, too. Take advantage of the situation and you can bond with her too over something for your child.

It takes a lot for someone to step up and participate in a child's life if it isn't theirs, so if you don't want her to come, let her know, but don't make a big deal out of it. She probably just wants to be involved 😊

@brendabravo93, they have been together for almost 4 months

Of course, as long as their relationship is serious and they are both caring and respectable.